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They say (some say) that you get what you pay* for.

I believe it’s true, for the most part. Of course there are exceptions to everything. Just wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough.  Simply looking and living your best life isn’t always enough.  But I’ve seen enough for the last decade to know that there are many, many great kinky folk in the scene.

Plenty of amazing submissive single folk exist within the scene. Male, female alike. Many of them do not have an owner, master, daddy, mommy, etc.

Same with dominants. I meet sensitive, wonderful providers, protectors, and caregivers. Most of them already have a submissive, which is rather natural I suppose.

I do not believe there aren’t “any good dominants [or submissives] out there.”

Constant complaints smearing male submissives as demanding and entitled? Or submissives stating how there are “no good dominants”? It gets tiring.  I see differently, myself.  And I don’t believe I’m overly naive.  I trust in what I see.

Too often I see spoiled, demanding folk wondering why they haven’t yet found “any good ones” out there.  Endless lists of their wants, though, unsurprisingly little about what they themselves have to offer.

Perhaps we- all- need to be working hard to get what we want, rather than demanding and hoping it drops in our laps (okay, I might have done that, but please don’t rely on this method!).

I hope that one day I see more where people are offering what they have, instead of mostly hearing what they want.

Because otherwise, you get what you get. And you don’t get upset.

*by payment I mean whatever you put in, not necessarily a monetary amount

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