| “always such warmth within your words” |
| “jenny’s wedding” & why i am not entirely happy about the legalization of same sex marriage |
| “this seems like an exciting time for you” and other awesome alternatives to “that sounds complicated” |
| “would you like a slice of pie?” |
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| **PRIDE** coming out is something I do every day— but not for every one |
| basketful of diamonds, a |
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| be with me |
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| because erasure is fun! |
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| choose to be kind in an unkind world |
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| dear former self: why being “selfish” can sometimes be selfless |
| diane from bojack horseman: “but mostly, it’s just the famous people, right?” |
| difference between safe words & hard limits, the |
| dominance & submission: two sides of the same coin |
| domme you may not have heard about, the |
| don’t love yourself? try to love someone else. |
| fake relationships are actually quite satisfying |
| fantasy life must be oh, so amazing, the |
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| how kink changed my identity in ways vanilla life never did |
| how to earn a child’s respect (spoilers) |
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| how to relationship: GoT edition |
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| how to save a life |
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| how’s all that winning treating ya? |
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| i am a loser |
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| i don’t hate you, i love you |
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| i don’t know you, but i think i love you: the beauty of casual love and NRE |
| i don’t pity unicorn hunters |
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| i don’t “sign up” for anything but memberships |
| i don’t think they’re “doors” |
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| i include love in my relationships (in my back pocket) |
| i’d like you to be my biggest cheerleader, but i NEED you to be my biggest critic |
| i judge your username, OR 5 simple reasons you might be ruining your chance at getting a response from a woman |
| i love you as antony loved cleopatra |
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| i might be mary poppins |
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| i wanna be somebody to someone (but i don’t want to work for it) |
| i’m underrepresented, but i’m not “marginalized” |
| if i wanted to date a perfect (ly boring) body, i’d date a sex bot |
| if you seduce me under false pretenses, why, i’m so sorry you troubled yourself |
| kitty, aka “the inherent contradiction” |
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| a kitty’s guide to meeting kinky folk: part 1, munches are awesome |
| knowing my beauty |
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| let’s get married, because i want a big party |
| longevity isn’t always the goal |
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| message to my friends, don’t give up when things are going WELL, either!, a |
| my love isn’t sacred |
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| my relationship manifesto |
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| my sex manifesto |
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| my tribe is my lifeblood– and i highly encourage you to get one of your own |
| no, i won’t give you my whole cookie! |
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| no, we don’t (all) need to be better parents |
| no, you can’t help those who don’t want to help themselves |
| oh, you want to be my friend? thanks, and fuck you, too |
| our many masks |
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| princess jasmine decides to not trust aladdin; a tale of risk tolerance |
| really, now, THAT’S where we’re going with this? ***Eternals spoilers!!!*** |
| sharing Google calendars |
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| show me something different |
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| social distancing with your polycule |
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| sometimes you’re not enough |
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| thank you for not abandoning me when i lied to you |
| threesomes, are they for you???: how to have a successful, non fantasy threesome: part one |
| top 8 places to find a unicorn! |
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| ugly people aren’t broken or missing pieces |
| unsaturated kink roles in the kink community |
| value of friendship, the |
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| we remember feelings, not events |
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| we’re our choices, not our destinies |
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| welcome to the club, curvy girl |
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| what does marriage mean? |
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| what is kink? |
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| what is poly? |
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| what we hear when you say “what are you looking for?” |
| when pro dommes become the only dommes |
| when you’re the dessert, not the main course |
| when your friend objects to going to munches |
| why i strive to be the eternal optimist |
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| why use a label? |
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