Kitty has spent some time around her own country and abroad, exploring, discovering. Should you wish to see what she’s found, please take a moment to look! Below are writings from other excellent writers; guest appearances elsewhere; and a calendar of events from places she supports and encourages others to attend!
Enjoy, please!

Sometimes, in periods of sleep disturbances, waking too much at night, too many nightmares, I have waking dreams.
Sometimes they are terrifying and I see-but-don’t-see monsters in the corners, watching me, hungry. Sometimes they are beautiful and I see-but-don’t-see the shadow of every hand that touched a door, so many different lives in the same place.

A Warning from Guest Blogger Master Cluff: this kind of (intelligent) writing can cause snowflakes to melt and ban you from their threads. (Reposted to STK with permission!) “Shame, Shame, Shame. Shame, Shame, Shame.” – GoT S5E10 *”Everybody knows he’s cheating”*”Cheaters are …”*”Why does she stay?” Raise your hand if you’ve seen a post like …
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What if he loves her more? Then he fucking loves her more, and you either find that the love he has to offer you is enough, or it isn’t. If it is, you appreciate and reciprocate the shit out of that love, and you don’t compare how much love you’re getting. Its not halloween and the love isn’t you and your little brother’s candy haul. If it isn’t enough, you leave, and you don’t worry, because somebody out there is looking to share a giant pile of love with you.
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As a self identified kitten and submissive who does have an anxious avoidance attachment style, I found this quite educational. As with any research, please take this with a grain of salt and apply it to yourself as is relevant, but still, I wanted to share this with you! Yours truly, Kitten ____________________________________________ Reposted with …

I have absolutely no desire to micromanage anyone. The pet has been on this earth 21 more years than I have. In that time he's perfected the art of managing himself. He's done pretty well before I came along and if a rogue city bus were to flatten me tomorrow, he'd be sad but he'd manage. I have no time to tell him what to eat and when to eat it. I have to make sure my youngest doesn't eat peanut butter and nutella every single meal. That's enough dietary monitoring for me.