Kinky, Poly Parenting

The One Twue Way they told you is the Only way. Just kidding. There’s no “right” way- it’s just what suits you and what gets you what you want.

But if you’d like to know how at least one kinky, poly parent does it, well, here’s the place for you!  (Spoilers, it’s a lot more fun than you’ll see almost anywhere else!)

Woman standing and looking to a big puzzle piece By ra2 studio

you will (probably) miss the person you were before you became a mom (or parent) & it’s okay!

I read an article today about a mother who missed the days when she did not yet have children. Some will say that is just a passing phase. Others that they would never, ever feel that way. I wondered how many of them had ever met a child, let alone raised one. You will miss …

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A Little Kindness Can Change The World By Mimi

practicing kindness in little ways: a gentle approach to daily life

It’s late Sunday evening, around 9pm. I notice my oldest munchkin at her usual ritual. She’s sitting at the dinner table, absorbed in her snacks and her Facebook scrolling. It’s one of the few times she emerges from her den. I’m annoyed at her for bolting away from dinner earlier and avoiding chores. She’s barely …

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what i learned as the invisible parent: a conversation with a fellow parent

“So how are things these days,” she says. And she is sincere in the question. So I talk to her. Some things are amazing, wonderful, even nearly unreal and euphoric. Sure, it’s a tough time for us all these days– but the truth is my life is better for the quarantine than it was even …

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kinky folk, we (can) teach our children to love..but we (can) also incline our children to hate

Something I saw from a friend, We teach our littles to be strong, we teach them to be brave, we teach them to get up when they fall and never give up on something they want. But there is a moment, it’s coming for all of us, where they walk confidently away from you. They …

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how to be a great parent AND a fantastic partner

“[My] kids come first in everything…We live and breathe for our children. When they are grown and have families of their own then we will have our time together again….No exceptions. I love my children far more than I love my husband!” “We raise our children to become independent, to leave us and make their …

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kinky parents, play games with your child, because you’re both worth it

“I don’t play with my children,” she says. I don’t owe them all my time. I don’t have patience for their mindless games. It’s not my job to entertain them, this is why I provided them siblings. They can play with each other. She believes this to be a fair way of thinking. I cannot …

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“why are there foam acoustic panels on your bedroom walls?” & other solutions for kinksters who are parents

I hear about people’s escapades after they put kids to bed, but how do they do it? My friend asks.  I mean, isn’t it loud? Good question.  For anyone curious how to make it work, for anyone who struggles with this and wonders who the ‘successful’ people do it— well, I don’t wonder anymore.  These …

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