After a few minutes of chatting with a new couple at an event, the first inevitable question pops up
“Thank you for asking, well, I’ve been coming to munches and such for about ten years, I guess. Feels like forever, honestly. It’s just really comfortable here, and I always meet such nice people.”
Person makes some statements
“Well, no, I actually don’t know much about rope or impact. Not really my thing, and I probably won’t know much about if you ask me in twenty years. But I do know some people into that aspect of the lifestyle. I’m sure I could point you in a good direction. Also I’ve seen pictures of rope on this one profile that look pretty. I can probably find the username…”
Person says a few more things
“No, that’s fine that you’re new! Yeah, some people don’t want anything with newbies, for various reasons. I really don’t mind it.”
Person continues
“Yeah, I’ve heard that’s true. I don’t have a minimum required number of years involved to talk to someone. I guess I usually date someone who’s been exploring kink for at least a year or so, but that’s not a hard and fast rule.”
Person continues
“Sure, I’d love to connect with you on Fet! Always nice to meet someone new, hope you have a lovely evening. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got to catch up with some friends, but I hope to see you around soon!”
Feel free to steal any part of this sample conversation for Conversing with Beginning Kinksters Who Probably Will Ask You The Same Basic Questions Because They’re New and Not Sure What to Say.
You’re welcome, ^^.