Sure, why not? It seems like an easy enough thing. People think you can pick up submissives; or even dominants, like picking up ice cream from the convenience store. You can just have a submissive, or you could just be someone’s submissive. I’ve seen the ads (and, yes, they came from doms and subs alike, …
eJealousy: a word that provokes a tidal wave of emotion Some people will say that jealousy isn’t “real,” but typically what they mean by that is that jealousy is not a thing in and of itself, but a sign of something else. Jealousy is a manifestation of insecurity, fear, anger, etc. What they don’t always …
The funny little ways we perceive love and ourselves. At heart, I am polyamorous– but one can be polyamorous and in a monogamous, polygamous/polyandrous, or any relationship structure of one’s choosing (which would be relationship “anarchy,” not perhaps the best word but the one associated with the term). I believe one ought to be able …
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Suffocating, feels like I can’t breathe Can’t speak The problem, of course, is that toxic positivity is POSITIVE She feigns concern for her children, “They should have heat when it’s cold.” The problem is it isn’t that cold, my own mother gently chided me when I complained myself, “Good thing you lost heat when you …
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“Choose to be authentic. Choose happiness.” That’s easy enough to say when you’re privileged. Authenticity isn’t a choice for everyone. Some of us can only (freely) do it if others CHOOSE to support us. Some of us must be content with living authentically amongst those we trust Remember that, and be kind.