On BDSM and Kink

Submission, dominance, bondage, floggers and whips– but is there perhaps more to the world of BDSM? Explore the mind and body along with Kitty, if you care (or dare) to join her in her journey.

master sleeps with his teddy bear…no, titty bear…no, tiddy bear?
Every night, master wants his tiddy bear. He’s not normally affectionate like this. Kitten turns her people cuddly that never were before. But now they need it. Master mostly doesn’t desire touches. He does it, thankfully, for Kitten’s sake. He knows how much she needs it. She tries to be good, too, but she really …

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forgetting vanilla
I like kisses. I’m a bit funny about it, but I like them.  Just not usually on the lips.  No, not those lips, either! I’m just not big into kissing, except with a chosen few.  I do not wish to kiss merely for the sake of kissing.  When I do, though… Neck, curves down my …

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community talks: why i believe we need dungeons
Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …

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dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse?
I Am Kinky by the Kinky Doctor Seuss I am kinky when I’m safeI am kinky when I chafe I am kinky when I’m scaredI am kinky when I’m spared I am kinky when I’m comfyI am kinky when I’m grumpy I am kinky when I labelI am kinky whenever I’m able I am kinky …

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my kinky guardian angel may be a Sadist
She’s always there for me, Or, at any rate, she always is on top of my love life. Making sure I get what I need. At least that’s what I tell myself. It’s most definitely a need, not a want. “Want” sounds so….unnecessary. Everyone needs to be used until they fall down in a pile of exhaustion, right? okay, …

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only thing that matters, the
“focus on the feeling,” his voice is smooth, low, there are a lot of problems but they don’t exist now. “The only thing that matters is the feeling,” his fingers brush over the silkiness of my breasts, sweet and full. it’s true. this is all that matters, now and always. all the many moments like …

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free play vs. game play:  a distilled approach to kink
Kink, I think, is play. What else defines it apart from “vanilla”? After all, kink may not necessarily involve whips, chains, stilettos, or anything the 50 Shades culture associates with kink. Kink, I hope!, is not a means of feeling superior or enlightened. Nor using code words to make others feel disconnected from the conversation. …

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my life as a “middle” (sort of)
I never thought I’d see myself as a little. I even allowed others to encourage me to be dismissive of littles. Littles, brats, what could be worse? Nothing good could come of associating with that kind of person. But as time went on, not only did I make friends with brats and littles, but I …

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what a dom wants, what a sub needs
Surely this isn’t an unfamiliar sight. A dominant thrilled by his submissive’s accomplishments and demeanor. S/he proudly displays them for the public, basking in the glow of the accolades, “What a beautiful relationship you two have!” In the background, I’m equally sure, is a frustrated dominant (or two or a dozen) sulking because why won’t their submissive …

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