On BDSM life from perspective & experience of Kitty & friends

orgasms! a simple guide
Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
rubber duckies aren’t just for littles (& many more things that are for everyone!)
What if playing with rubber duckies ISN'T just for littles?
unsaturated kink roles in the kink community
Our community is, indeed, varied and fascinating. I won't deny that. Yet, just every so often, I find myself wishing for someone who scratches a particular itch. While I believe wholeheartedly that there is no one person who can do something for you-- I do find there are certain kinks/kink providers that are scarce enough to practically be unique when one does find them.
when I say I’m a “good” submissive
Lying in bed in the middle of the afternoon, while watching a documentary on kittens, and I think to myself, “I feel quite submissive today.” I made my master coffee (and thought about making omelets, but the pan was dirty, not my fault!). I even GOT DRESSED and helped shovel snow, like a good kitten. […]
s/he belongs to you for a reason
“How is it possible for one to own the stars?” [said the Little Prince.]“To whom do they belong?” the businessman retorted, peevishly.“I don’t know. To nobody.”“Then they belong to me, because I was the first person to think of it.”….“I myself own a flower,” [said the Little Prince] as he continued his conversation with the […]
i’m a submissive, i’m not a wallflower
I…might be a switch. Heavily leaning towards submissive. Whatever I might I will say this: I love to serve. Which leads me to being a submissive. Which leads me to being the one being pursued, caught. Waiting for someone to come after me. I am, by virtue of being female and a sub, a sort […]
the difference between safe words & hard limits
What is a safeword? A safeword is a funny, unusual word. It’s an alternative way to stop or slow down play (say, a “scene”). Instead of saying “no” or “stop.” Because there may be times where the submissive (or even the dominant) wants to be able to say “no,” and have the other person keep […]
if you give a little a stuffy
If you give a little a stuffy, she’s going to ask for a big, soft blanket. If you give her a big, soft blanket, she’s probably going to want to take a nice nap. If you let her take a nice nap, she’s going to want you to tuck her in. If you go to […]
yes, i’m a submissive, even when i’m sick
“Do you suspend dynamics when you’re sick?” I’ve most often seen this question posed towards s-types. Does your master suspend dynamics when you are unwell? And a part of me recognizes that many people do not know how dynamics work. They are curious what happens when the sub cannot “serve” her dominant. I respect this. […]
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