Sometimes Kitty needs a safe place to say things…

mother’s day is bittersweet for me
I woke up. Showered. Came back to find the bed freshly made and the little pillows properly placed. I love clean sheets. I’m such a domestic, no? And on the pillow, on my side of the bed, is a card. Now, I’ve never gotten a card for Mother’s Day before. But these days, I’m feeling […]
where have all the good (monogamous) doms gone?
It seems like monogamous submissive women are having an especially hard time finding a good dominant, monogamous man. Maybe it was always difficult. But certainly, my single, vanilla female friends seemed to have an okay time finding a guy. Whereas I struggled finding a non monogamous guy who wasn’t awful. The tables seem to be […]
mutually assured destruction based relationships are my #1 hard limit
Mutually assured destruction (MAD) is a doctrine of military strategy and national security policy in which a full-scale use of nuclear weapons by two or more opposing sides would cause the complete annihilation of both the attacker and the defender (see pre-emptive nuclear strike and second strike).[1] It is based on the theory of deterrence, which holds that the threat of using strong weapons against the enemy prevents the enemy’s use […]
trust isn’t necessary to be a fucking decent person
I’ll say it here: Trust is overrated. It’s wonderful when it genuinely blossoms from a deep connection. A solidly built trust helps to reassure one that you are making the right decision with any given person with whom that trust is formed. Yet at the end of the day, the only person in whom you […]
your emotional burdens are not mine, but i will still listen
I shall state this simply and clearly for those in the back: Your emotional burdens are not my responsibility. …nor are my, or anyone else’s, burdens your responsibility. Call me cruel, heartless, unfeeling, but at least I feel I am fair. Of course, it’s your choice to live this way. I had a friend try […]
if they are the -only- one for you, they might also be the very worst for you
Do you know this song? "I'm the only one Who'll walk across the fire for you/And I'm the only one Who'll drown in my desire for you"
how’s all that winning treating ya?
Isn't life wonderful for you? Your world is picture perfect. Just the way you always imagined it would be one day.
do we owe reconciliation?
Do we let go of the past? I originally posed this question to myself as, “Do we owe forgiveness?” But I tend to agree with the saying, “Forgiveness isn’t for them. It’s for you.” I would advocate for forgiveness, because otherwise the bad feelings eat you up. But because of that, the forgiveness comes from […]
it isn’t up to her, OR waking up to a bright new day
I’ve been reflecting on this sentiment, what with the election and all, and our dear, Glorious Leader declaring himself the winner, because, well, of course he is. It’s an odd thing, having a narcissist in your life and living with a narcissistic President in your White House. Taught me quite a bit about life and […]
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