On Life & Love

“What is Life?” “What is Love?” Perspectives on the meaning of life, love, and everything– from the perspective of a Curious Kitten! Share in her reflections, as she attempts to understand the most important things in life.

God, your relationships are so LAZY!
I’m lazy about relationships some days.  So are my friends.  Random internet strangers. …and who the fuck cares? My cousin is a typical traditionalist who chose the path of least resistance when it came to her romantic life. Something easily understood by her mainly Christian conservative friends and family. She dated the opposite sex. She …

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privilege of being His second love, the
In the movies, the “best” loves aren’t the first ones.  They sometimes portray it as the last and final love of the movie is the “real,” love, but I’d just as soon stay away from telling someone that their love is “real” or “not real.” “Unhealthy love” or…”unsuited love”?  At any rate, the main character …

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be my nothing
As I lie here in your arms, I stop thinking, worrying The moment could last million upon millions of years If it lasted an eternity, I would be happy I want nothing but the peace within this moment My breath matches your breath, an extension of your self My mind is blank I am empty, …

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love isn’t everything
Sometimes love is casual/less/etc. But it’s still love. It is always, always Love. Look, I’m not an idiot. I know that not every love will look like the love that sleeps next to me every night. If I have a love that is far from me, that I never/rarely see, that lives in another country. If…so many …

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why not allow a little more beauty into this world?
A little piece of my mind tells me I must be truthful, always, always truthfully, what matters more than honesty? That voice says, be truthful, share the bad and ugly, as well as the good, beautiful, fantastical. That piece of my mind isn’t wrong, or I don’t believe so. I could share the nearly humorous …

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do i want the happily ever after?
I’ve never had that overwhelming life defining moment. Things just kept happening. That was all. I’ve never had the wedding day, nerve wracking graduation (yes, I graduated, but just bachelor’s, nothing special), or the birth of my child. I’ve had very good days and very bad days. Or I’ve had days I floated on my …

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who tells our story?
My friend’s husband passed away last week. She’s been one of my best friends for the last six years. I didn’t know him, as well, but he was a close family friend. In Jewish tradition, the whole thing was handled simply and efficiently. The body must be buried within a certain period of time and …

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choose to be kind in an unkind world
I choose kindness, compassion, and warmth. Being the one to bring a smile to your lips- rather than tears to your eyes- makes me feel…full. Gentle. Soft. Welcoming. The one that attracts the pups and kittens and littles, who perhaps sense that I won’t hurt them. The one that you know will hold you, sharing …

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unicorns & unicorn hunters, the real story! (hint, it’s not a bi woman who dates couples!)
She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He thinks because he is not seeking a bisexual woman, he …

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