On The Many Forms of ‘ships

“Why is Romance the Only Thing That Matters When We’re So Bad At It?,” “What else exists beside One Twue Love?,” “Why Don’t Friendships Count as Relationships,” & “Does One Twue Love even exist?” Or, “A Look at Some of the Relationships in Our Lives.”

understanding the existence of multiple, simultaneous relationships, OR when one ignores the 1+1=X rule
I am not a mathematical person. I cannot tell you if 1+1=2, mathematically speaking. I know there are arguments, apparently both ways, where some say one plus one equals two– and some say it does not. Don’t ask me for the mathematical proof, please. I am, however, a relationship person. In relationships, 1+1=X.  I would …

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oh, I keep falling in and out of love with you…and you…and you…
I am in love with Love. When you’re someone who adores, breathes Love. When love is more precious than any diamond. When all you want is to feel safe, warm, and full of light. It is a painful world we live in that has trouble wrapping their mind around this. I’ve heard (true quote), “I …

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is it lazy to not have a primary partner?
I’ve seen this come up time and time again. Especially related to how soooo many folks in polyamorous relationships don’t want to commit, are just looking to have fun, don’t want a “serious” relationship..and I keep hearing this word… Lazy. I thought I’d drop it here, for posterity’s sake. And to engage a bit of …

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translating your unicorn into a “shooting star”
I lie on the ground, staring at the open sky. Until I see a sharp light flash across the darkness. A shooting star. How often have I heard someone talking about a hoped for unicorn?  More than I can speak on. It’s usually not a bisexual woman into couples, however, but something far rarer.  If …

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privilege of being His second love, the
In the movies, the “best” loves aren’t the first ones.  Funny, isn’t it?  In the movies, the main character often goes through several false attempt loves before they find their lasting connection. Sometimes they even need to experience those initial loves to appreciate their “last” love (at least so far as the movie goes.) This …

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God, your relationships are so LAZY!
I’m lazy about relationships some days.  So are my friends.  Random internet strangers. …and who the fuck cares? My cousin is a typical traditionalist who chose the path of least resistance when it came to her romantic life. Something easily understood by her mainly Christian conservative friends and family. She dated the opposite sex. She …

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be my nothing
As I lie here in your arms, I stop thinking, worrying The moment could last million upon millions of years If it lasted an eternity, I would be happy I want nothing but the peace within this moment My breath matches your breath, an extension of your self My mind is blank I am empty, …

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unicorns & unicorn hunters, the real story! (hint, it’s not a bi woman who dates couples!)
She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He thinks because he is not seeking a bisexual woman, he …

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some of us need to learn to be a “we,” some of us need to learn to be a “me,” and some of us…
Some people need to learn to be a “me.” They’ve never been on their own. Don’t even know what it means to be themselves, apart from a Romantic Other. Suddenly find themselves cast on their own and…have no clue. Utterly adrift, no direction, no purpose. It’s scary. Others need to learn to be a “we.” …

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