Ten years ago, I could have been the first bisexual woman to blah, blah, blah. I still could, but I’d probably have to tag polyamorous in to the mix or something. And nobody cares as much. And I’m running out of things to be first in.

Same for being of color or trans, or any of it. We’ve already had most of the “firsts” taken, which is awesome. But I’m just saying.