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lessons on “green flags”: when someone isn’t who you think they are

Red flags are fairly straight forward. I’m not very good at recognizing red flags, although I am better then I used to be. Someone said I only looked innocent. The way I dressed, they said. I do like dressing modestly, when I put on clothes. I’m not always good at recognizing red flags, though.  I …

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what we hear when you say “what are you looking for?”

I’m sure you’ve seen statuses, writings, etc about how women don’t want to hear “What are you looking for?” It seems innocuous enough. Women are just getting upset over nothing right? (And, yes, women can be attention seeking, but let’s put that aside for now and assume these specific complaints are sincere.) But when (usually) …

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