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women2women: womenfolk (or femme presenting) are not your competition

Women, I need you to listen to something, I am not your competition. We are not each other’s competition. Of this, I can assure you. Life will throw plenty of obstacles your way. It will create competition at every step of the journey. We needn’t make it worse by competing among each other. That other …

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plight of the straight, female, mono submissive, part 1: dear pretty, mono girl

Fyi, this works in reverse for the “pretty” guys, the tall, handsome Chris Hemsworth look alike searching out their one, true, monogamous submissive love.  Switch genders, or even sexes, as you like: Dear pretty, monogamous girl in search of her one true dominant, Remember high school? Maybe you were the pretty head cheerleader who never …

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stay single until— an analysis & an observation

“Until it feels easy.” My kitten brain sighs, “Until WHAT feels easy?”** It’s nice to say, “Being single is fun and easy!”— and certainly I do think being single is underrated. …but it isn’t always easy.   The 24/7, confident, hair whipping woman in the powersuit, breastfeeding whilst commanding a conference call via her bluetooth …

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happiness is a choice: lessons from my mother

I learned many lessons from my family growing up.  I learned lessons from my siblings, from my mentors, from my friends.   The second most important lesson I received from my mother was this:   Happiness is a choice.  At the Las Vegas “Life is Beautiful” festival, the year it first began, I painted this sentiment on a …

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