Sure, why not? It seems like an easy enough thing. People think you can pick up submissives; or even dominants, like picking up ice cream from the convenience store. You can just have a submissive, or you could just be someone’s submissive. I’ve seen the ads (and, yes, they came from doms and subs alike, …
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Heat. Fire play is actually more about heat than it is flames. One feels the sensation, without being burned. The fire warms the body (and sometimes implements, such as fire cups). It provides the most amazing subspace (at least for me). It can be low risk, though it is never without risk. I personally engage …
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aftercare is what we provide to our partners “afterwards,” whatever that means loving, gentle or isolation, or whatever we need “afterwards,” whenever that “afterwards” occurs my “after” happens very quickly, a snuggle, water that magically appears by my side when I hold out my hand, eyes still closed until they can stand light, any light, …
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I wish you the best, truly. I am sorry for whatever poor experience was inflicted upon you. But maybe you’d benefit from hearing a few things. Munches are not, as common wisdom would tell you, a place to make you feel “warm and fuzzy.” ( Or at least it feels like that memo got passed …
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Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
Chocolate is a flavor. Kink is a flavor.
Ice cream is a thing. Sex is also a thing.