“What are you into?” Some folk get mad at the question. They say the question is trite, boring. ‘What was the best part about your day?,” your mother would ask you at dinner, after you got home from school. And secretly, you hated that question. “What are you into?” starts to feel like the grown …
art of the followup question in relationships, the Read More »
After a few minutes of chatting with a new couple at an event, the first inevitable question pops up “Thank you for asking, well, I’ve been coming to munches and such for about ten years, I guess. Feels like forever, honestly. It’s just really comfortable here, and I always meet such nice people.” Person makes …
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I wish you the best, truly. I am sorry for whatever poor experience was inflicted upon you. But maybe you’d benefit from hearing a few things. Munches are not, as common wisdom would tell you, a place to make you feel “warm and fuzzy.” ( Or at least it feels like that memo got passed …
dear people who go to munches and are consequently disappointed, Read More »