Reflections

living in a heterosexual relationship, as a bisexual being: part two: the murmur of “noise”

There’s a lot of noise and confusion as you come into your own, as a queer person. For context, I have at least one child who is going through an active period of questioning and evolving her sexuality. At twelve, she’s already dealing with her own “noise.”  Is she confused?  Not really.  Not anymore than …

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living in a heterosexual relationship, as a bisexual being: part one: on being “enough”

… can be exhausting. Justifying. Explaining. Listening to second hand lies. Of what or who I am, according to those who haven’t bothered to ask me. I am not queer enough. I am not attracted to enough bodies (why can’t you be pansexual?).  Not loving enough, etc. etc. I live with a man, I play …

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250th Celebration Post!: kitty begins a new life chapter

It feels…good. Finally. I woke up this morning and felt good.. Happy, smiling. Feeling as if the world is truly my oyster, and I am its pearl. I’ve been waiting for it to feel good, instead of numb.  Stop wanting to sleep all the time. Forcing myself to do basic daily routines. Instead of stupid, occasional …

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