basketful of diamonds, a
Once upon a time, someone said that diamonds held unimagined, intrinsic value.
A diamond is forever. A diamond is love.
my “NRE” loves: pt 1: i don’t know you, but i think i love you
I don’t know you.
I don’t even know your name, and, no, you needn’t tell me. I think the name I call you is lovely and unusual.
believing the one we love
I’m fortunate in my wealth. No, I’m not speaking of material wealth. Friends. Chosen family. Blood family. Partners. Lovers. Playmates. I want to believe they are always good. I remember my brother, in high school, abandoning his friends for a new group– because he knew they were the sort to get him into bad trouble. …
perspective of a 24/7 sub
I’m 24/7. This is one of those topics I’m more than happy to engage in a dialogue—because this is my life– but I’ll try to explain here, in simple terms. I won’t go into too much detail or down any particular path, but only “What 24/7 means to me.” Because it seems to be a …
my love isn’t sacred
My love isn’t sacred. My collar isn’t a blessing. Your cock isn’t glorious. I am not your Chosen or your angel. My breasts aren’t divine. But, Master, I am your Sacred Whore.
dear former self: why being “selfish” can sometimes be selfless
Dear Former Self, I think you are okay. But perhaps a little too hard on yourself. You told yourself that taking care of yourself is selfish. You told yourself that if you didn’t tell people that they were being offensive or rude or wrong, that their behavior was at least partially on you. You confronted …
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communication is SO important
Me: Communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Also Me: (yells across the room) I’m putting the thingy in the thingy. Master: Okay. Moral of the story? If your communication works, it works. In other words, no matter how silly or idiotic it feels, if you say something and the person understands what you …
why I won’t stop listening to “both”* sides
We’re not supposed to question victims. I understand this. Too often, victims are harassed and disbelieved. I don’t think I’d ever question a rape victim or a victim of sexual assault in any shape or form. Not from their own mouths, at any rate. Sometimes people around them will make up stories, but victims rarely …
why the kitty doesn’t understand grown ups
All quotes from The Little Prince, public domain “All grown-ups were once children… but only few of them remember it.” “Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is exhausting for children to have to provide explanations over and over again” “Grown-ups are so strange” “Grown-ups are certainly quite extraordinary” “Grown-ups love figures… When you …
what is kink?
Well, that’s not so easy to answer. I could say, rope play, impact play, dressing up in latex and leather, whips, doms, and dominatrices. It’s true this is the most common description of kink, and quite a valid one, but it’s not all of it… I can describe for you one kinky life of a …