Polyamorous, monogamous, platonic, romantic…what makes a relationship “tick”? Relationshipping at it’s best (or at least my best, take it for what you will!)
“Ah,” she thinks, “is it my turn?” She pouts when she realizes it is her fellow toy’s turn. It isn’t fair, she thinks, they got used only yesterday! It ought to be her turn, tonight. Lady is going out of order. Is it because I am too worn out, she ponders. It is true she …
hidden life of a Very Cherished Toy, the Read More »
I am not a Domme. I should clarify this first and foremost. As a submissive, the last thing I want -generally- is the responsibility of taking control of the scene. At the same time, I am curious about the idea. As, I’m sure, are many submissive types. Of course it’s rather nerve wracking to entertain …
top for a top?: when doms need to safeword Read More »
In the movies, the “best” loves aren’t the first ones. Funny, isn’t it? In the movies, the main character often goes through several false attempt loves before they find their lasting connection. Sometimes they even need to experience those initial loves to appreciate their “last” love (at least so far as the movie goes.) This …
privilege of being His second love, the Read More »
I am not a mathematical person. I cannot tell you if 1+1=2, mathematically speaking. I know there are arguments, apparently both ways, where some say one plus one equals two– and some say it does not. Don’t ask me for the mathematical proof, please. I am, however, a relationship person. In relationships, 1+1=X. I would …
I am in love with Love. When you’re someone who adores, breathes Love. When love is more precious than any diamond. When all you want is to feel safe, warm, and full of light. It is a painful world we live in that has trouble wrapping their mind around this. I’ve heard (true quote), “I …
oh, I keep falling in and out of love with you…and you…and you… Read More »
I’ve seen this come up time and time again. Especially related to how soooo many folks in polyamorous relationships don’t want to commit, are just looking to have fun, don’t want a “serious” relationship..and I keep hearing this word… Lazy. I thought I’d drop it here, for posterity’s sake. And to engage a bit of …
is it lazy to not have a primary partner? Read More »
Blood is thicker than water, so some say (I am making a personal commitment to myself to stop saying ‘they say,’ because I despise it). Yet my chosen family is closer to me than many blood relatives. But I can’t say there is nothing to the bond of family by blood. A child raised by a …
when blood is thicker than water (and as precious) Read More »
I’m lazy about relationships some days. So are my friends. Random internet strangers. …and who the fuck cares? My cousin is a typical traditionalist who chose the path of least resistance when it came to her romantic life. Something easily understood by her mainly Christian conservative friends and family. She dated the opposite sex. She …
God, your relationships are so LAZY! Read More »
As I lie here in your arms, I stop thinking, worrying The moment could last million upon millions of years If it lasted an eternity, I would be happy I want nothing but the peace within this moment My breath matches your breath, an extension of your self My mind is blank I am empty, …
She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He thinks because he is not seeking a bisexual woman, he …