…and now for something completely different!
January 12, 2024
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“a gift isn’t really a gift if you expect one in return.”
January 12, 2024
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“all you need to be a mom is love” is utter bullshit
May 16, 2023
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“am I polyamorous?”: a fairly foolproof test
July 2, 2023
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“but the thing is…”
November 12, 2019
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“could i live without you, master?”
November 18, 2021
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“do you know the word ‘polyamory’?”, aka kitty meets a kinky friend on the moon
February 23, 2020
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“I am an author,” I told her
October 17, 2021
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“IRE,” an alternative to “NRE”
December 19, 2019
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“It’s so lovely you made a friend,” they say, and I want to say, “…but how do you know that she’s a friend?”
November 16, 2021
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“jenny’s wedding” & why i am not entirely happy about the legalization of same sex marriage
January 12, 2024
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“one twue wayism is the WORST….except when i think it’s fine.”
December 16, 2021
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“this seems like an exciting time for you” and other awesome alternatives to “that sounds complicated”
January 12, 2024
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“why are there foam acoustic panels on your bedroom walls?” & other solutions for kinksters who are parents
March 12, 2019
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“you are the only one that needs to know”
October 18, 2020
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“I Love You,” and beyond
March 27, 2024
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(s)he belongs to you for a reason
September 6, 2020
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[sub] drop IS an actual thing, thanks
March 5, 2019
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**PRIDE** coming out is something I do every day— but not for every one
January 12, 2024
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10(+) questions to help know if polyamorous relationships -could- be a compatible choice for you
July 24, 2022
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100th celebration post!!!!: “would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”
January 12, 2024
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11 ways to be a mean mom
January 12, 2024
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13 promises to my kitty self
January 10, 2022
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25th anniversary: the best Cinderella story, “Ever After”
February 12, 2023
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36 things about turning 36: a kitty reflects on her life so far
November 27, 2021
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a beautiful li(f)e
March 16, 2024
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a different game: understanding dating, self improvement, and unicorn ranching
March 20, 2024
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a kitty’s guide to meeting kinky folk: part 1, munches are awesome
January 12, 2024
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actually, romance isn’t dead
October 1, 2019
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aftercare for D types
July 28, 2019
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am i a real woman?
April 11, 2021
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anger, patience, and chocolate mug cake
November 20, 2021
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apology to my abuser, an
December 18, 2018
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are threesomes for you??? a quiz!
June 27, 2023
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are you worth 20% of my effort?
January 12, 2024
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art of the followup question in relationships, the
January 12, 2024
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authenticity isn’t a choice for us all
October 22, 2023
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awakened by desire
November 14, 2019
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awakening to the “dollhouse moment”
November 14, 2023
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awesome power of misguided strength, the
May 4, 2023
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awww, you think you can make me jealous? that’s adorable.
November 30, 2021
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balancing the “gap” in polyamory
October 30, 2023
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basketful of diamonds, a
January 12, 2024
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be my nothing
July 16, 2022
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be someone who leaves a mark on their life, not a scar
January 2, 2023
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be with me
January 12, 2024
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beauty of the rose
May 21, 2023
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being a “bad mom” is easier AND more fun!
December 12, 2021
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believing the one we love
January 12, 2024
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boy (or girl) who cried wolf, the
April 30, 2023
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breathing through the weight of toxic positivity
October 31, 2023
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broader form of jealousy, a
January 12, 2024
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can you be aromantic and polyamorous?
January 22, 2023
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can you find two good things in your life?
March 19, 2023
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chasing the ocean, the ocean chases me
November 24, 2021
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cheating or DADT?
January 12, 2024
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Check Your Damn Indignation At The Door (TW: cheating, shaming, snowflakes)
November 6, 2019
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chocolate ice cream, kink, & sex
December 12, 2019
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Choose kindness. Things aren’t what they seem, and it’s later than you think.
September 7, 2019
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choose to be kind in an unkind world
January 12, 2024
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choosing polyamory can mean not having to choose
May 3, 2023
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choosing to love
January 12, 2024
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closer look at jealousy by a very overly confident kitten, a
January 12, 2024
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communication is SO important
January 12, 2024
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community talks: why i believe we need dungeons
March 22, 2022
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consent is a conversation, or that time at the gas station my debit card got flagged for fraud
January 31, 2021
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consent is not the same as enthusiastic consent
January 24, 2021
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consequences if you cannot accept your child
January 12, 2024
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conversation with kitty & a confused pervert: “don’t just LET us be brats to you!”
January 12, 2024
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Conversations on Dating with the munchkin
January 12, 2024
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cookies!!!
January 12, 2024
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coronavirus ramblings #1
January 12, 2024
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dealing with the “how long have you been in the lifestyle” icebreaker question
January 6, 2022
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dear former self: why being “selfish” can sometimes be selfless
January 12, 2024
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dear kitty: my son might be seen in public with people that aren’t his spouse! help!
April 30, 2019
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dear people who go to munches and are consequently disappointed,
July 4, 2021
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dear poly “couple,” remember that you started out as secondary, too
November 3, 2021
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dear prospective superheroes in hopes of finding their destiny,
May 30, 2021
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dear unicorn hunters, it’s not unicorn hunting that’s the problem, it’s you
October 17, 2019
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dear women, abortion does not need to be an act of desperation to be the right decision for you
January 12, 2024
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dear world, why I got the Covid vaccine– and why I’d like us all to just suck it up, do it, and move on!
January 12, 2024
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degree to which we save ourselves or share ourselves: the heart of poly and love, the
November 12, 2021
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diane from bojack horseman: “but mostly, it’s just the famous people, right?”
March 29, 2020
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difference between safe words & hard limits, the
January 12, 2024
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do i want the happily ever after?
March 8, 2022
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do you ever miss that past love?
August 1, 2021
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do you want a D/s relationship?
November 19, 2023
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do you want to be my first thought? then let’s be willing to be each other’s afterthoughts.
December 5, 2021
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dominance & submission: two sides of the same coin
January 12, 2024
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domme you may not have heard about, the
January 12, 2024
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don’t be the worse version they want you to be
November 5, 2021
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don’t love yourself? try loving someone else
April 28, 2023
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don’t tell me to hold out for a hero
December 26, 2021
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downward dating spiral
February 22, 2022
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dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse?
March 13, 2022
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earned compersion vs. “natural” compersion
April 6, 2023
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echoism: the quiet sibling of narcissism
January 12, 2024
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