On BDSM & Kinky Kytties

On BDSM life from perspective & experience of Kitty & friends

master sleeps with his teddy bear…no, titty bear…no, tiddy bear?

Every night, master wants his tiddy bear. He’s not normally affectionate like this. Kitten turns her people cuddly that never were before. But now they need it. Master mostly doesn’t desire touches. He does it, thankfully, for Kitten’s sake. He knows how much she needs it. She tries to be good, too, but she really …

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toy bear dressed in leather belts harness accessory for BDSM games on a dark background in neon light By rotozey

community talks: why i believe we need dungeons

Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …

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Dr Seuss cat in the hat. Hat, mustaches and bow-knot. By Hunman

dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse?

I Am Kinky by the Kinky Doctor Seuss I am kinky when I’m safeI am kinky when I chafe I am kinky when I’m scaredI am kinky when I’m spared I am kinky when I’m comfyI am kinky when I’m grumpy I am kinky when I labelI am kinky whenever I’m able I am kinky …

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free play vs. game play: a distilled approach to kink

Kink, I think, is play. What else defines it apart from “vanilla”? After all, kink may not necessarily involve whips, chains, stilettos, or anything the 50 Shades culture associates with kink. Kink, I hope!, is not a means of feeling superior or enlightened. Nor using code words to make others feel disconnected from the conversation. …

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what a dom wants, what a sub needs

Surely this isn’t an unfamiliar sight. A dominant thrilled by his submissive’s accomplishments and demeanor. S/he proudly displays them for the public, basking in the glow of the accolades, “What a beautiful relationship you two have!” In the background, I’m equally sure, is a frustrated dominant (or two or a dozen) sulking because why won’t their submissive …

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