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On BDSM life from perspective & experience of Kitty & friends

relationship between shame, guilt, humiliation, and degradation, the

I recently became inspired to consider the connections between shame, guilt, humiliation, and degradation. As my master is Jewish, and our oldest daughter is devout enough for High Holy Days, I attended Yom Kippur services with them both.  The rabbi’s speech centered around two concepts, Shame and Guilt.   At one point he started labeling some things as …

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sorry, sweetheart, your pussy isn’t more magical than love

I’m eating bananas Foster French toast with a friend, and she just cannot grasp that my master (well, to her, he’s my “partner”) is with another woman… and I’m OKAY with it. I do not even bother explaining I’m actually turned on. She needs me to be gentle. After all, it’s only breakfast. I know …

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community talks: why i believe we need dungeons

Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …

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