Sure, why not? It seems like an easy enough thing. People think you can pick up submissives- or even dominants- like picking up ice cream from the convenience store. You can just have a submissive or a dom(me). Just scan through the ads. I’ve seen the ads (and, yes, they came from doms and subs …
I recently became inspired to consider the connections between shame, guilt, humiliation, and degradation. As my master is Jewish, and our oldest daughter is devout enough for High Holy Days, I attended Yom Kippur services with them both. The rabbi’s speech centered around two concepts, Shame and Guilt. At one point he started labeling some things as …
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Sit up, look pretty Dress the part Become the life She’s dressed to the nines, Hair, clothes, makeup, nails, stilettos She fits into her world just as she pleases Life is simple in a doll’s house A doll’s world Where everything is neat and tidy She knows she has to eventually fold up her Silver …
Heat. Fire play is actually more about heat than it is flames. One feels the sensation, without being burned. The fire warms the body (and sometimes implements, such as fire cups). It provides the most amazing subspace (at least for me). It can be low risk, though it is never without risk. I personally engage …
aftercare is what we provide to our partners “afterwards,” whatever that means loving, gentle or isolation, or whatever we need “afterwards,” whenever that “afterwards” occurs my “after” happens very quickly, a snuggle, water that magically appears by my side when I hold out my hand, eyes still closed until they can stand light, any light, …
“Ah,” she thinks, “is it my turn?” She pouts when she realizes it is her fellow toy’s turn. It isn’t fair, she thinks, they got used only yesterday! It ought to be her turn, tonight. Lady is going out of order. Is it because I am too worn out, she ponders. It is true she …
Every day I see requests put forth by women and hetero couples. Requests that, if put forth by men, would be met with statements of “You should just pay a sex worker if you want that.“. Fair, but we need this for women and MF or FF couples, too! Someone willing to provide sexual services …
I’m eating bananas Foster French toast with a friend, and she just cannot grasp that my master (well, to her, he’s my “partner”) is with another woman… and I’m OKAY with it. I do not even bother explaining I’m actually turned on. She needs me to be gentle. After all, it’s only breakfast. I know …
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Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …
I Am Kinky by the Kinky Doctor Seuss I am kinky when I’m safeI am kinky when I chafe I am kinky when I’m scaredI am kinky when I’m spared I am kinky when I’m comfyI am kinky when I’m grumpy I am kinky when I labelI am kinky whenever I’m able I am kinky …
dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse? Read More »