On BDSM & Kinky Kytties

On BDSM life from perspective & experience of Kitty & friends

sorry, sweetheart, your pussy isn’t more magical than love

I’m eating bananas Foster French toast with a friend, and she just cannot grasp that my master (well, to her, he’s my “partner”) is with another woman… and I’m OKAY with it. I do not even bother explaining I’m actually turned on. She needs me to be gentle. After all, it’s only breakfast. I know …

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conversation with kitty & a confused pervert: “don’t just LET us be brats to you!”

So you’re with this hot girl, right? You’ve negotiated your terms. No sex, that’s the agreement. But some girls like to be kinda bratty and what if- smack in the middle of a scene- they straight up demand, “Fuck me!” Yeah, exactly! What if they ask to fuck me in the middle of things? Say …

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incredible subs attract incredible dom(mes), fantastic dom(mes) get fantastic subs

They say (some say) that you get what you pay* for. I believe it’s true, for the most part. Of course there are exceptions to everything. Just wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough.  Simply looking and living your best life isn’t always enough.  But I’ve seen enough for the last decade to …

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master sleeps with his teddy bear…no, titty bear…no, tiddy bear?

Every night, master wants his tiddy bear. He’s not normally affectionate like this. Kitten turns her people cuddly that never were before. But now they need it. Master mostly doesn’t desire touches. He does it, thankfully, for Kitten’s sake. He knows how much she needs it. She tries to be good, too, but she really …

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toy bear dressed in leather belts harness accessory for BDSM games on a dark background in neon light By rotozey

community talks: why i believe we need dungeons

Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …

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Dr Seuss cat in the hat. Hat, mustaches and bow-knot. By Hunman

dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse?

I Am Kinky by the Kinky Doctor Seuss I am kinky when I’m safeI am kinky when I chafe I am kinky when I’m scaredI am kinky when I’m spared I am kinky when I’m comfyI am kinky when I’m grumpy I am kinky when I labelI am kinky whenever I’m able I am kinky …

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free play vs. game play: a distilled approach to kink

Kink, I think, is play. What else defines it apart from “vanilla”? After all, kink may not necessarily involve whips, chains, stilettos, or anything the 50 Shades culture associates with kink. Kink, I hope!, is not a means of feeling superior or enlightened. Nor using code words to make others feel disconnected from the conversation. …

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