…in an ideal, picturesque, though not entirely unachievable, world. Some folk never quite get into traditional lifestyles. Some folk feel a bit off, but allow themselves to get settled, more or less happily, into a traditional lifestyle. Some get dragged, kicking and screaming, into a life they don’t want. I happened to be the first …
gentle tides of life wash away another layer of sand, the Read More »
I watched the movie in an empy theatre…save myself and M. I saw myself in both the wife and the girlfriend; in the moment, it felt as if it were written for me alone
Dear unicorn hunters,
I am sure you’ve been ridiculed, besmirched, despised, and worse for wanting your perfect triad.
I find a certain peace in watering my plants. Early in the morning, when the hummingbirds spin round, before the heat of the day sucks the moisture from my body. I prefer sturdy plants that don’t require a great deal of water, so I don’t stress about killing them. I may not have the greenest …
more I water and care for my garden, the more it produces, the Read More »
When I first started dating my master, he was with Someone Else. I know, this isn’t your typical fairy tale, but it’s mine. I hope you listen, because it’s difficult to make this short. Anyway. Let me tell you about her. Someone- in every typical, measurable societal standard- more “valuable” to him than myself. Someone …
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I found a pretty solid “how to do vanilla romance.” I modified it every so slightly– and it worked for polyamorous relationships, too! So this is also my Polyamorous Manifesto. This guideline includes no reference to anything kinky; no swinging, spanking, anal sex– “But none of that is kinky!” you interrupt. To which I politely …
poly? kinky? relationships are just relationships: my vanilla manifesto Read More »