I swear, I didn’t make these up. True relationship quotes I found from vanilla folk about polyamory and ENM (some responses are from me, others from actual responses from strangers). “I mean, respect to those who make this work, but I can’t understand how they don’t murder each other out of jealousy.” “If your best …
people really are bad at relationships: part one Read More »
Blood is thicker than water, so some say (I am making a personal commitment to myself to stop saying ‘they say,’ because I despise it). Yet my chosen family is closer to me than many blood relatives. But I can’t say there is nothing to the bond of family by blood. A child raised by a …
when blood is thicker than water (and as precious) Read More »
She’s always there for me, Or, at any rate, she always is on top of my love life. Making sure I get what I need. At least that’s what I tell myself. It’s most definitely a need, not a want. “Want” sounds so….unnecessary. Everyone needs to be used until they fall down in a pile of exhaustion, right? okay, …
I went in search of my dart set today. My fellow teachers and I would play darts most nights, after we finished teaching and ate dinner. We’d meet up in Kyungsungdae (one of the college areas) where there were lots of restaurants and bars. One of my (our) friends owned a bar that we liked to go …
S/he belongs to you for a reason. If you wish to own a submissive, it must be more than words. More than empty gestures. I will defer, for a moment, to one of my favorite stories on explaining How Adults Work, The Little Prince. The part where the Prince lands on a tiny planet where …
I show up, mid afternoon, with a bottle of strawberry margarita mix and a box of donuts. I don’t know all these girls. I don’t even know if they are all girls, aside from 1) the assumptions I’ve been conditioned with my whole life that says “This person ‘looks’ like a girl,” and 2) my …
one lazy afternoon with my girls, OR why we all need a ‘safe space’ Read More »
Dear Kitty, I find myself in a difficult situation and I am not sure what to do. Recently I met a girl on social media. We were in a group together and I asked her if I could DM her and she DMed me. The connection was instant and intense. Conversation just flowed naturally, deep …
22 years old and the rest of my life ahead of me. I’m standing at the end of an aisle that will lead me to you.
“Do you suspend dynamics when you’re sick?” I’ve most often seen this question posed towards s-types. Does your master suspend dynamics when you are unwell? And a part of me recognizes that many people do not know how dynamics work. They are curious what happens when the sub cannot “serve” her dominant. I respect this. …
what D/s looks like “in sickness” as well as “in health” Read More »
A Warning from Guest Blogger Master Cluff: this kind of (intelligent) writing can cause snowflakes to melt and ban you from their threads. (Reposted to STK with permission!) “Shame, Shame, Shame. Shame, Shame, Shame.” – GoT S5E10 *”Everybody knows he’s cheating”*”Cheaters are …”*”Why does she stay?” Raise your hand if you’ve seen a post like …
Check Your Damn Indignation At The Door (TW: cheating, shaming, snowflakes) Read More »