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what Commitment means, or what it has the potential to mean (*Black Mirror, Striking Vipers spoilers*)

“God knows if I wanted, I could go out and do whatever. You think I haven’t made sacrificed, I haven’t denied things for myself? A guy at the bar was hitting on me earlier, and half of me wanted him to, just for some excitement, some fucking passion. But that is what you do. That …

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25th anniversary: the best Cinderella story, “Ever After”

I adore fairytale adaptations. Consistently, through the years, my favorite has remained the same: Ever After. I love that it’s the first Cinderella story where, when the prince (would) sing, Do I want you because you’re wonderful, Or are you wonderful Because I want you? I don’t answer, “I have no idea. As far as …

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wanting other people doesn’t mean you’re less perfect (*spoilers to Undone Season 1*)

“What is wrong with me,” the sister queries through her tears as she confesses to cheating on her fiancé with a bartender. “Nothing is wrong with you,” Alma reassures her, “You’re human. You’re not perfect.” I appreciate the sentiment, but I think she deserves a little better than that.  If I could, I’d say this …

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polyamory in casablanca (**yes, some spoilers**)

The atmosphere is perfect, if perfect exists. I’m sitting in my favorite restaurant in the world with -one- of my favorite persons in the world. Placing alternating morsels of exquisite sweet and savory foodstuffs (this date concoction is incredible!) into my mouth. Luxuriating in the gentle breeze of a fan. Behind me, plays one of …

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