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scheduling poly dating life and childcare: how do you make them both work?

Dear Kitty, My wife and I had a difficult time with scheduling and childcare this weekend. At one point, she said, “It hurts my feelings that you don’t think my time with my romantic partner is more important than your plans to [just] go to a play party.” Frankly, I felt slut shamed by the …

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mutual questionnaire when beginning a relationship: romance edition

Questions When Beginning A Relationship (Romantic) A Living Document Love Languages:  What does love mean to you?  Look like?  How do you give and receive romantic love? References: What are your “people” like? Your closest friends? Chosen family? Who might I run into at munches? Tell me about them. What would they say about you? Can I …

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Kitty’s Meowings By Category

Musings/Adventures/Dear Kitty Category/Musings (9) Post On the Many Forms of ‘ships do you want to be my first thought? then let’s be willing to be each other’s afterthoughts   i did choose one   [my] single life isn’t unhappy   on demisexuals and “little strings”   open letter to the married man i haven’t yet …

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how to be a great parent AND a fantastic partner

“[My] kids come first in everything…We live and breathe for our children. When they are grown and have families of their own then we will have our time together again….No exceptions. I love my children far more than I love my husband!” “We raise our children to become independent, to leave us and make their …

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Kitty’s Meowings By Category

Musings/Adventures/Dear Kitty Category/Musings (9) Post On the Many Forms of ‘ships do you want to be my first thought? then let’s be willing to be each other’s afterthoughts   i did choose one   [my] single life isn’t unhappy   on demisexuals and “little strings”   open letter to the married man i haven’t yet …

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poly? kinky? relationships are just relationships: my vanilla manifesto

I found a pretty solid “how to do vanilla romance.” I modified it every so slightly– and it worked for polyamorous relationships, too! So this is also my Polyamorous Manifesto. This guideline includes no reference to anything kinky; no swinging, spanking, anal sex– “But none of that is kinky!” you interrupt. To which I politely …

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