I told someone the other day that I never push past the no. “I would never do that,” I say. “There’s absolutely no point, anyway, and it violates their consent. If they decline your pursuit, respect that.” “But what if they really want you to chase them?,” they ask me. “What if they do,” I …
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Where To Find It: Available on Kindle and Paperback. Only the price of a cup of coffee! And it opens up a world of true kink stories, from the perspective of kinksters (I don’t know about you, but I’ve never had a 28yo billionaire try to ‘test my limits’, which apparently happens all the time …
I woke up. Showered. Came back to find the bed freshly made and the little pillows properly placed. I love clean sheets. I’m such a domestic, no? And on the pillow, on my side of the bed, is a card. Now, I’ve never gotten a card for Mother’s Day before. But these days, I’m feeling …
Break ups can be weird when you’re polyamorous. I think about if I would ever get “back” with my ex meta. We never quite “dated.” We never quite “broke up.” Neither did she and my partner
Some will say I am not a real woman. No, I was born with female genitalia (which will satisfy many). I live as a woman and I usually identify as one. I am generally treated as a woman, because I present as female. But, you see, I am not a “real” mother. Therefore I am …
Life is best when it’s two. So quoth the single and the attached. Marriage for two remains the goal, with its accompaniment of benefits and tax breaks. Restaurant specials are offered to Couples. The day to day conveniences of being in a Couple are supposedly all around us.
I’m watching South Park today. Well, in the background. Do not judge me, okay? It occurs to me, as I’m desperately attempting to understand SEO and keyword research, that 90% of the show is, “Adults explain things very poorly to kids. Kids use this misinformation to get into a lot of trouble. Kyle learns something …
“What about this theory: the fear of not being enough and the fear of being ‘too much’ are exactly the same fear. The fear of being you.” – Nayyirah Waheed As I sit and begin to wake up this morning (no, too early for me for coffee or any solid food), I come across this …
Diane: Ugh. Of course, the first time BoJack dates a woman his own age, she’s basically just a stunted 20-year-old. Kelsey: Well, BoJack’s stunted, too. He got famous in his twenties, so he’ll be in his twenties forever. After you get famous, you stop growing, you don’t have to. Every celebrity has an age of stagnation. Diane: I’m …
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I’m tired of the floods of articles on cheaters. Cheating is terrible. Liars are terrible. But there’s a lot worse things a person can do than cheat. I’ll wait for the shocked gasps to subside, but it’s the truth. It isn’t so much that I think it’s a good thing, but it’s somehow become the worst crime, …