forgiveness culture isn’t bullshit, it’s [my] survival
“I can’t forgive the person who hurt me.”
Yes, yes you can. Do not tell me you are weaker than the person who hurt you.
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aftercare for D types
Me (reads prompt): Hmmm, Master, do you want aftercare? (springs on top of master)
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single life isn’t unhappy, the
Okay, so I’m not exactly single. But I do check the “Single” box on my taxes. Does that count? I’ll overrule for the moment, and say, yes. Yes, it counts. Besides, it would be okay if I were absolutely single. It’s infuriating that society derides the single life. Oh, Being Single is fine when you’re young
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how to bring a date to a munch: kitty edition!
Okay, so I thought it might be fun to just help out with a few light, fun “how to” guides on kink, munches, dating, etc. If you need a bit of help, here you go! 1. DO Treat your date like a person. Yup! That’s the first part. They are still a normal human being,
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i don’t think they’re “doors”
They say when life closes a door, another one opens. I’m not so sure I believe this. Do you remember that bit from Ice Age where Scrat is precariously attached to the ice cliff and trying to keep the water from gushing out? He keeps sticking his hands, nose, whatever he can…but every time he
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the harsh realities of sunk costs vs staying with the “one whose been there for you”
This message is specifically directed to any couple thinking about opening up, but really it’s for anyone. I am skeptical of most “unconditional love.” I don’t want to argue here whether unconditional love exists. Perhaps it does. Perhaps it doesn’t. But love is more than a feeling. It is manifested in our actions. And that
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mutually assured destruction based relationships are my #1 hard limit
Mutually assured destruction (MAD) is a doctrine of military strategy and national security policy in which a full-scale use of nuclear weapons by two or more opposing sides would cause the complete annihilation of both the attacker and the defender (see pre-emptive nuclear strike and second strike).[1] It is based on the theory of deterrence, which holds that the threat of using strong weapons against the enemy prevents the enemy’s use
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