I wanted my next piece to be something fun and light. Then I woke up to this. I saw a writing once where someone wanted to deny that abuse is kink. I am not opposed to that, but I imagine an ideal society where kink would be such an everyday part of society that the …
I am perfect. Congratulations, me, achievement unlocked! ….except of course I am not. Perhaps practically perfect in every way. But I am, in all sincerity, at the best I’ve ever been in my life. I am stable, secure in my values, know precisely what I want and need moving forward. I have more to offer than ever …
“Your drawing looks like someone I knew. She was lovely.”“She -is-. I haven’t seen her for a week. I wonder if she’s upset with me, because I forgot about her.”“If she’s a friend, everything will be fine once you talk to her.” When Marnie Was There, 2014 Why, I think, should it be presumed that …
I cherish my roles as a slave, as your possession, as the one who submits to you each and every morning and evening. In every moment of the day, in the moments between us as you hold me through the night. I want you as much as I’ve ever wanted anything. I want to give …
I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling like I’m letting the people around me down. My master sees me intimately, each and every day. I want him to see the best of me. Of course that isn’t always achievable. The littlest one had to get her Covid shot today (something she was very eager to …
it’s harder to disappoint the ones that love you than you think Read More »
Are you familiar with a duprass? duprass – a karass of only two people, who almost always die within a week of each other. The typical example is a loving couple who work together for a great purpose. Cat’s Cradle, Kurt Vonnegut Most of us have multiple connections, multiple obligations in our lives. We all have …
degree to which we save ourselves or share ourselves: the heart of poly and love, the Read More »
She didn’t agree to me falling in love with him, with her love. It is ten years ago. She owns him, in her mind, as she owns her children. She allows him to sleep with other women, if she approves of them, if they are safe, if they are less than her. In her mind, this …
love isn’t always consensual but it can be ethical Read More »
Sounds simple enough. Sharing love. Who would say no to that? But it’s not so easy to share love in a world where we believe love is a scarce resource. If we believe love is rare and precious, we instinctually cling to it whenever we find a bit of it! Perhaps it is like diamonds. …
…or maybe less. Maybe you were some offhand, one night stand. Not that there was anything wrong with that. You both wanted a bit of release. You found it with each other that night. Or maybe you started out as friends that grew into “more,” (though I dislike that concept as it imagines that friends …
dear poly “couple,” remember that you started out as secondary, too Read More »
I fell asleep thinking about you last night, My fingers creeping to my pussy, wet, dripping You say I’m gorgeous and I am modest enough to blush and giggle in response, But I do believe I am beautiful and perhaps that is my ego speaking but I don’t care anymore I have plenty, they say, …