Every day I see requests put forth by women and hetero couples. Requests that, if put forth by men, would be met with statements of “You should just pay a sex worker if you want that.“. Fair, but we need this for women and MF or FF couples, too! Someone willing to provide sexual services …
sex worker services for WOMEN and COUPLES Read More »
Sometimes it’s never enough. Wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough. Simply looking and living your best life isn’t always enough. There’s never an “enough” to guarantee finding Love, let alone Submission and someone worthy of that Submission. Or someone worthy of Ownership. …but sometimes it is. Yes, there are plenty of perfectly …
incredible subs, fantastic dom(mes) Read More »
I like kisses. I’m a bit funny about it, but I like them. Just not usually on the lips. No, not those lips, either! I’m just not big into kissing, except with a chosen few. I do not wish to kiss merely for the sake of kissing. When I do, though… Neck, curves down my …
not forgetting vanilla Read More »
Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …
community talks: why i believe we need dungeons Read More »
Kink, I think, is play. What else defines it apart from “vanilla”? After all, kink may not necessarily involve whips, chains, stilettos, or anything the 50 Shades culture associates with kink. Kink, I hope!, is not a means of feeling superior or enlightened. Nor using code words to make others feel disconnected from the conversation. …
free play vs. game play: a distilled approach to kink Read More »
What if playing with rubber duckies ISN’T just for littles?
Note: It’s possible that doms can experience a form of drop, but this is really about sub drop. I’ve read, time and time again, about sub drop. Which is great that we talk about it. But also— we kinda talk about it like it’s something we indulge in simply because we feel like it. “I …
[sub] drop IS an actual thing, thanks Read More »