Another day, another thought. Am reading one of those stupid, poison-ridden Reddit dramas. This one about a woman mad that her newly wed husband chose to spend Thanksgiving with his mother over her. I agree with her that it sucks. She doesn’t get along with her MIL, and now she loses her husband for the …
when the person you love already has a primary relationship Read More »
This message is specifically directed to any couple thinking about opening up, but really it’s for anyone. I am skeptical of most “unconditional love.” I don’t want to argue here whether unconditional love exists. Perhaps it does. Perhaps it doesn’t. But love is more than a feeling. It is manifested in our actions. And that …
the harsh realities of sunk costs vs staying with the “one whose been there for you” Read More »
Mutually assured destruction (MAD) is a doctrine of military strategy and national security policy in which a full-scale use of nuclear weapons by two or more opposing sides would cause the complete annihilation of both the attacker and the defender (see pre-emptive nuclear strike and second strike).[1] It is based on the theory of deterrence, which holds that the threat of using strong weapons against the enemy prevents the enemy’s use …
mutually assured destruction based relationships are my #1 hard limit Read More »