if you want to break up with me, break up with me
Break ups can be weird when you’re polyamorous. I think about if I would ever get “back” with my ex meta. We never quite “dated.” We never quite “broke up.” Neither did she and my partner
wasting your twenties on “finding yourself” isn’t a waste
Some might say I wasted that decade. Threw my twenties away. They might be right– — but they might be wrong. If I could pass on a single life lesson to anyone, it would be this: Whoever you are, wherever you are, please put aside that time to find yourself. Because happiness is tricky. Everyone’s …
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am i a real woman?
Some will say I am not a real woman. No, I was born with female genitalia (which will satisfy many). I live as a woman and I usually identify as one. I am generally treated as a woman, because I present as female. But, you see, I am not a “real” mother. Therefore I am …
when I put a whole raw chicken into the oven, my chocolate chip cookies came out tasting funny, OR why polyamory doesn’t work sometimes
What would happen if People Treated Baking Cookies like they do Relationships?
three shall be the number of thy counting
Life is best when it’s two. So quoth the single and the attached. Marriage for two remains the goal, with its accompaniment of benefits and tax breaks. Restaurant specials are offered to Couples. The day to day conveniences of being in a Couple are supposedly all around us.
Have weird guilt fetish and want to confess to something I didn’t do, to keep a partner I’m not sure I really want…Help!
Dear Kitty, Soon after my boyfriend had moved into my apartment with me, our relationship started to go down hill, and I realized I didn’t want to be with him. When the pandemic hit, I was still working in the office. I would come home to my partner drunk. He never cleaned and disrespected my …
societal failures in communication
I’m watching South Park today. Well, in the background. Do not judge me, okay? It occurs to me, as I’m desperately attempting to understand SEO and keyword research, that 90% of the show is, “Adults explain things very poorly to kids. Kids use this misinformation to get into a lot of trouble. Kyle learns something …
orgasms! a simple guide
Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
metamour is essentially the poly equivalent of an in-law: a brief(ish) analysis, a
So I hear today is National Metamour Day? What is a metamour, you ask? Well, actually it’s pretty simple: A metamour is like an in-law.
consent is a conversation, or that time at the gas station my debit card got flagged for fraud
I tried to input my code. Thought I’d mistyped it. But, no, it just wouldn’t work. Finally, I checked my phone, and, sure enough, I’d gotten an email asking me if the purchase had been me or fraud.