Sometimes sitting, wishing, and waiting isn’t enough. Wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough. Simply living your best life isn’t always enough. There’s never an “enough” to guarantee finding Love, let alone Submission and someone worthy of that Submission. Or someone worthy of Ownership. …but sometimes we can help ourselves out a bit. …
Kink, I think, is play. What else defines it apart from “vanilla”? After all, kink may not necessarily involve whips, chains, stilettos, or anything the 50 Shades culture associates with kink. Kink, I hope!, is not a means of feeling superior or enlightened. Nor using code words to make others feel disconnected from the conversation. …
free play vs. game play: a distilled approach to kink Read More »
I am not a little. I actually rather looked down on the DD/lg dynamic. I allowed others to encourage me to be dismissive of littles. Littles, brats, ugh. Just grown (usually) women who couldn’t take care of themselves. But as time went on, not only did I make friends with brats and littles, but I …
my life as a “middle,” OR what it means to have “middle tendencies” Read More »
she’s soft, sweet
unintimidating
helpful, understanding
she doesn’t judge you
doesn’t fault you
follows you
I wanted my next piece to be something fun and light. Then I woke up to this. I saw a writing once where someone wanted to deny that abuse is kink. I am not opposed to that, but I imagine an ideal society where kink would be such an everyday part of society that the …
I cherish my roles as a slave, as your possession, as the one who submits to you each and every morning and evening. In every moment of the day, in the moments between us as you hold me through the night. I want you as much as I’ve ever wanted anything. I want to give …
I fell asleep thinking about you last night, My fingers creeping to my pussy, wet, dripping You say I’m gorgeous and I am modest enough to blush and giggle in response, But I do believe I am beautiful and perhaps that is my ego speaking but I don’t care anymore I have plenty, they say, …
I wish you the best, truly. I am sorry for whatever poor experience was inflicted upon you. But maybe you’d benefit from hearing a few things. Munches are not, as common wisdom would tell you, a place to make you feel “warm and fuzzy.” ( Or at least it feels like that memo got passed …
dear people who go to munches and are consequently disappointed, Read More »
Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
What if playing with rubber duckies ISN’T just for littles?