When you discover a new term for something… A while back, I’m speaking with a fifty-ish woman, sparkling silver scarf wrapped round her neck. She’s a little shy, but attempting to open herself to connections. Somewhat new-ish to kink and very much brand new to polyamory (yes, some of the conversation is embellished for the …
She’s worried, as we’re speaking, What if I have a wonderful time with you? What if we decide to try a second date? What if we want…a relationship? Something more. Something real. What if it’s not just some stupid, silly fling? She continues, sincerely puzzled, but with no ill intent. She asks, How does that …
handling the “I want to be your friend, but I’m scared of it turning into more…” talk Read More »
After a few minutes of chatting with a new couple at an event, the first inevitable question pops up “Thank you for asking, well, I’ve been coming to munches and such for about ten years, I guess. Feels like forever, honestly. It’s just really comfortable here, and I always meet such nice people.” Person makes …
dealing with the “how long have you been in the lifestyle” icebreaker question Read More »
A conversation between myself and someone who doesn’t understand polyamory… “What’s your favorite ice cream?” “Uh, I guess cookies and cream. At least lately.” “Okay, so you only want cookies and cream from now on?” “Uh, no. What?” “If you really like cookies and cream, you should only want 🍪 and🍦.” “I’m sorry what? What …