Some might say I wasted that decade. Threw my twenties away. They might be right– — but they might be wrong. If I could pass on a single life lesson to anyone, it would be this: Whoever you are, wherever you are, please put aside that time to find yourself. Because happiness is tricky. Everyone’s […]
wasting your twenties on “finding yourself” isn’t a waste Read More »
What would happen if People Treated Baking Cookies like they do Relationships?
Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
orgasms! a simple guide Read More »
So I hear today is National Metamour Day? What is a metamour, you ask? Well, actually it’s pretty simple: A metamour is like an in-law.
metamour is essentially the poly equivalent of an in-law: a brief(ish) analysis, a Read More »
I tried to input my code. Thought I’d mistyped it. But, no, it just wouldn’t work. Finally, I checked my phone, and, sure enough, I’d gotten an email asking me if the purchase had been me or fraud.
Look, not every decision in life must be embraced as if it were our heart’s greatest desire. Consent is a part of our daily lives; we’d be exhausted if we threw ourselves into every single, microscopic decision…
consent is not the same as enthusiastic consent Read More »
Do you know this song?
“I’m the only one
Who’ll walk across the fire for you/And I’m the only one
Who’ll drown in my desire for you”
if they say they are the -only- one for you, they might also be the very worst for you Read More »
What if playing with rubber duckies ISN’T just for littles?
rubber duckies aren’t just for littles (& many more things that are for everyone!) Read More »
Fake Benefits of Non-Monogamy: 1) You will never be alone. 2) You will have constant, amazing threesomes. 3) Dating will be easier.
real and fake benefits of monogamy and non monogamy Read More »
Perhaps you met young. Childhood sweethearts. High school romance stayed sweet. Your relationship spans, well, practically an eternity when you compare it to your friends’ romances. You don’t remember what life was like before she came along. Which is all well and good. At some point, you felt pretty good about what you’ve got. You
relationships are a marble statue, not an oak tree Read More »