my sex manifesto
…Sex must be “safe.”
I know that sex possesses several risks, like most of life. But I want my sex to strive towards safety. That means more than condoms and birth control.
when you’re the dessert, not the main course
I’m the dessert before the meal,
the “why not,” not the “why.”
i don’t “sign up” for anything but memberships
I didn’t sign up for you to never change I didn’t sign up for you to be bisexual or poly or mono or anything I didn’t sign up for you to be who you are – a poem by the kitty “I didn’t sign up for this!” I hate this phrase. That’s very likely true. …
i love you as antony loved cleopatra
i love you with the unending undying unbreakable emotions piercing through my beingi love you as antony loved cleopatrai love the way you swish your hair. the way you clink your drink against an imaginary glass– and i know, we just met. like 35 minutes ago. and, yes, I’ve heard that song— no, please don’t …
npc energy: i only talk to people when they talk to me first
I discovered this word from Urban Dictionary. My sources might be slightly dubious… …but I still kinda think this term is amazing. Cause I’m kinky AND geeky, which basically comprises 90% of kinksters in my very rough and unscientific study. And, yes, I am often the social butterfly greeting the newbies at munches and …
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love as thou wilt
If I could change the world one little bit,
I would make a world where everyone could love, freely, whomever they wished.
why i stay polite to strangers
who does it hurt? it makes me feel better to not drop to the level of the person being nasty to me i don’t see hierarchy in people, not in that way. If I treat my life partners and best friends with respect (and sometimes I fail, but I try my best), than I should …
when they tell you they’re fine
when someone tells you they are fine
they have nothing to talk about
when they’re quieter than usual
why i strive to be the eternal optimist
I never said I am the eternal optimist. Sometimes my tiny turtle mind says, “Hey, little dude, you’re flat on your back and you can’t get up!”
value of friendship, the
“She’s just a friend.” I don’t love this phrase. I’m supposed to attach some sacred value to a person with the title, “girlfriend,” or “boyfriend,” “fiancé” (with one “e”) or “fiancée” (with two “e”s) or “spouse.” Since time began, I imagine men and women whispered this to each other, “Don’t worry about Sarah, she’s just …