I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling like I’m letting the people around me down. My master sees me intimately, each and every day. I want him to see the best of me. Of course that isn’t always achievable. The littlest one had to get her Covid shot today (something she was very eager to …
it’s harder to disappoint the ones that love you than you think Read More »
Are you familiar with a duprass? duprass – a karass of only two people, who almost always die within a week of each other. The typical example is a loving couple who work together for a great purpose. Cat’s Cradle, Kurt Vonnegut Most of us have multiple connections, multiple obligations in our lives. We all have …
degree to which we save ourselves or share ourselves: the heart of poly and love, the Read More »
She didn’t agree to me falling in love with him, with her love. It is ten years ago. She owns him, in her mind, as she owns her children. She allows him to sleep with other women, if she approves of them, if they are safe, if they are less than her. In her mind, this …
love isn’t always consensual but it can be ethical Read More »
It’s tempting, I’ll admit. When someone hopes desperately that I am the evil, horrible, no good person they want me to be. But why would they want that, you say? If it’s happened to you, you already know the answer to this. Thankfully, not all of us have. Because if you are that person, you see, it …
Sounds simple enough. Sharing love. Who would say no to that? But it’s not so easy to share love in a world where we believe love is a scarce resource. If we believe love is rare and precious, we instinctually cling to it whenever we find a bit of it! Perhaps it is like diamonds. …
…or maybe less. Maybe you were some offhand, one night stand. Not that there was anything wrong with that. You both wanted a bit of release. You found it with each other that night. Or maybe you started out as friends that grew into “more,” (though I dislike that concept as it imagines that friends …
dear poly “couple,” remember that you started out as secondary, too Read More »
I told one of the munchkins “thank you” the other day– and they didn’t say you’re welcome. I noticed this happened again. Which is unusual for them, because, truly, they are polite and caring kids. But I didn’t say anything to them, because I realized I don’t say “you’re welcome,” either. I do say other …
I’m tired. Exhausted, really. Some days I just want to run as far as I possibly can. I am a kitten, and a kitten can often be skittish. A kitten wants to be loved, yes, but doesn’t always know how to ask for it or find it. I am, indeed, one of the lucky ones. …
#SE – Kitty St. Valentine – Madilynn York – Awakened “Submission takes many forms. Sometimes it’s strict, Gorean protocol. Sometimes it’s complicated “scenes” with rope, fire, wax, and an array of scary looking – particularly to the untrained eye – implements. It’s not always passive, but it’s not always complicated. —- Sometimes it’s just eating a …
“So what brings you here?” I’ve gotten that question all night. I’m at a swinger party, hardly anyone knows anyone. I’ve stumbled on one or two friends, but that was complete random happenstance. I have no idea where they are now, and my partner has yet to arrive. So I’m speaking with some women in …