I’ve lost phone numbers,money,arguments,girlfriends,possessions,favorite outfits,my temper,my cool,the high ground a kitten’s claws can be provoked, though she regrets it each and every time I’ve been broken up with,ghosted,smeared,passed over for,forgotten. I have had material things stolen,jewelry,clothing,special treats, but not my loved ones. when I fall asleep at night,I fall asleep with the love and affectionof […]
Something I saw from a friend, We teach our littles to be strong, we teach them to be brave, we teach them to get up when they fall and never give up on something they want. But there is a moment, it’s coming for all of us, where they walk confidently away from you. They
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I shall state this simply and clearly for those in the back: Your emotional burdens are not my responsibility. …nor are my, or anyone else’s, burdens your responsibility. Call me cruel, heartless, unfeeling, but at least I feel I am fair. Of course, it’s your choice to live this way. I had a friend try
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People don’t always remember what’s happened very well. History may be real, but how we recall it is…complicated. But, as I’ve spoken with people over time, I find we all remember how we felt with a person. Whether they made us feel good, stressed, jubilant, terrified. We remember the feelings.
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…from Game of Thrones. (Although, if you haven’t seen the show by now, spoilers probably won’t matter) I apologize- a bit, but only a bit– for my latest bit of obsession with this show, but I wanted to write something light and sweet. Too many hard subjects on my mind of late. Do you know
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Jealousy is normal. Of course it is, why wouldn’t it be in a world where jealousy is taught to us from the earliest ages. When everything around us is a competition. When we’re taught we need to be someone’s possession above all else, and they must be ours. I am his, and he is mine.
closer look at jealousy by a very overly confident kitten, a Read More »
“I couldn’t love a motherless child.” So said Catelyn Stark about the boy she thought was her husband’s bastard. Games of Thrones is my new background noise. I wish she could have loved little Jon Snow. I don’t understand how you cannot love a child. Truth is, I instinctively want to protect all children, though
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Be with me, I want you to be with me, hold me. Can you do that for me? Will you tell me who you are? Will you tell me what you want? What makes you happy? Has anyone asked you that before? I hope so. If not, tell me what makes you happy, Or tell
Our community is, indeed, varied and fascinating. I won’t deny that. Yet, just every so often, I find myself wishing for someone who scratches a particular itch. While I believe wholeheartedly that there is no one person who can do something for you– I do find there are certain kinks/kink providers that are scarce enough to practically be unique when one does find them.
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I read this quote that said, “When a mom has a bad day, she’s allowed to vent. If a stepmom does the same, she’s stereotyped.” Of course feelings don’t listen to any of that. Of course stepmoms do get upset. But, you see, what they really mean isn’t that they aren’t allowed to show that
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