dear stranger, Perhaps you’re the sort that thinks polyamory, transgender, bi/pansexuality, etc is “trendy” and “fun.” I can’t say I disagree with you, entirely. Yes, I can see how someone who lives a more traditional life may see it that way. It’s quite fun to be able to express ourselves, freely, without expectations or boundaries. …
Kitty’s rambling mind and rambling thoughts. Funny when words spill forth, and you can’t control where they take you or where they land. I hope you can follow this rather convoluted string of thoughts. It’s been so long. In over a decade, I have not seen one shred of evidence that their mother wants them. …
Women, I need you to listen to something, I am not your competition. We are not each other’s competition. Of this, I can assure you. Life will throw plenty of obstacles your way. It will create competition at every step of the journey. We needn’t make it worse by competing among each other. That other …
women2women: womenfolk (or femme presenting) are not your competition Read More »
Nobody wants to feel unwanted. It’s one of the worst feelings, stupid, petty, gross. Doesn’t even have any self righteousness to it, like betrayal. Being unwanted just sucks. Unfortunately, it’s all too common. Dating polyamorously means I end up dating a lot. Or sort of dating? I don’t even know anymore. But whatever it is, …
if they want you, they want you; if they don’t, they don’t Read More »
If I were single and you met me, what would change? Would we be each other’s first priority, since we had “nobody else”? I suppose all the friends, family, etc in our lives wouldn’t count for anything. No, I’d clearly be “alone.” Except for you. Do you think my life would then be yours? I …
if I were single today, would you be my primary tomorrow? Read More »
Our 13 yo does not trust women. Few men, either, but he doesn’t think about that so much. Perhaps it’s because he is a boy. Or perhaps it’s because the women he thought should protect him the most failed him the most. Even the strongest little boy may have a deep, inherent love of his …
I am a trusting soul. I trust in my master, absolutely and wholeheartedly. I trust in my chosen family. I trust that my life will work out, so long as I move forward. But my hopes? I feel we often seek some savior. To change things. To make things better. I know certain loved ones …
Ah, the fantasy for most male folk, no? Maybe. Certainly it’s true for at least a few of em, and, let’s be honest, for more than a few of us female persons, as well. Although, funny thing, when one presses it as a Thing That Might Happen, several folk politely bow out. It’s a tasty treat, …
I’ve lost phone numbers,money,arguments,girlfriends,possessions,favorite outfits,my temper,my cool,the high ground a kitten’s claws can be provoked, though she regrets it each and every time I’ve been broken up with,ghosted,smeared,passed over for,forgotten. I have had material things stolen,jewelry,clothing,special treats, but not my loved ones. when I fall asleep at night,I fall asleep with the love and affectionof …
Something I saw from a friend, We teach our littles to be strong, we teach them to be brave, we teach them to get up when they fall and never give up on something they want. But there is a moment, it’s coming for all of us, where they walk confidently away from you. They …
you never know when they are listening (a gentle word of caution to kinky parents) Read More »