pretty, little kitty: a poem
she’s soft, sweet
unintimidating
helpful, understanding
she doesn’t judge you
doesn’t fault you
follows you
Kitty’s Musings
picture perfect Love vs. Love
It’s a funny little thing, love. Or so it seems. There’s a poem, I saw once, floating in the void about Love and Motherhood. How love for one’s children isn’t just about how one talks about their child, or the hugs and kisses they post pictures of on their various accounts. But that it’s also …
perfect metamour, the
Okay, okay, there’s clearly no such thing. Still, I’ve run into quite a bit of trouble on this matter. I’d like to air a few thoughts. Women seem to either want both my master and I, or want to come in between us. That’s how it’s pretty much always been. Yet I’ve continued to have …
dealing with the “how long have you been in the lifestyle” icebreaker question
After a few minutes of chatting with a new couple at an event, the first inevitable question pops up “Thank you for asking, well, I’ve been coming to munches and such for about ten years, I guess. Feels like forever, honestly. It’s just really comfortable here, and I always meet such nice people.” Person makes …
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relationships that are wants, and the relationships that are needs, the
Tonight, I made dinner for my partner and my oldest munchkin. It’s not much, but it’s tasty and everyone likes it. But it’s not the food that matters. The oldest can find food for herself (though admittedly she’s not very good at it). So can my master. They are not helpless. But, as I said, …
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don’t tell me to hold out for a hero
“I’m holding out for a hero ’til the end of the night,” The words blast through the car. I sit back, and I listen to the song. Sometimes I even sing along. I love cheesy musicals, okay? I watch Disney movies for the music. I’m not proud, I’m me. Of course, that isn’t what I …
how to treat someone like an option that treats you like an option
I usually say that I won’t date anyone who is monogamous. But that’s not entirely true. I’ve allowed people to date me, exclusively, if they preferred that. Only with individuals capable of meeting their own needs and wants, of course. Still, it’s not my preference. I prefer to date people who want to dive fully …
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i did pick one
I’m not the girl that loves being alone. I can do it, sure. For periods of time. Even within a relationship. Sometimes for as long as hours apart! (Mostly kidding, but not entirely). Look, I simply don’t need much time on my own. I’m a warm, snuggly kitten. I’ve been told I’m a little strange …
“one twue wayism is the WORST….except when i think it’s fine.”
Tell me this never happened to you. You’ve stumbled on the “One Twue Wayers are the worst ever” sentiment. Somewhere, sometime. If you’ve perused the void that is our social media/internet presence in the world. Fair point. It’s usually a way to put others down, rather than to build acceptance for your own choices. But …
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do you want to be my first thought? then let’s be willing to be each other’s afterthoughts.
My master wasn’t very much in my life at first, nor did I think he’d ever be. When I first met my master, he was with someone else. I had to accept being less than number one for him, or accept someone else. I chose him. But it meant a number of compromises. He was …