I read an article today about a mother who missed the days when she did not yet have children. Some will say that is just a passing phase. Others that they would never, ever feel that way. I wondered how many of them had ever met a child, let alone raised one. You will miss […]
Sometimes sitting, wishing, and waiting isn’t enough. Wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough. Simply living your best life isn’t always enough. There’s never an “enough” to guarantee finding Love, let alone Submission and someone worthy of that Submission. Or someone worthy of Ownership. …but sometimes we can help ourselves out a bit.
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It’s late Sunday evening, around 9pm. I notice my oldest munchkin at her usual ritual. She’s sitting at the dinner table, absorbed in her snacks and her Facebook scrolling. It’s one of the few times she emerges from her den. I’m annoyed at her for bolting away from dinner earlier and avoiding chores. She’s barely
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She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He needs to be Tall, fit, experienced in various forms of
As the old year winds down and the new year approaches, this is one of my commitments to myself. I feel this is quite a lot, considering I don’t generally like rules. I am breaking my own standard to create a new rule, at least for myself. The Golden Rule: Treat others how YOU want
ruby rule: when you treat people better than you want to be treated, the Read More »
Feelings are a funny thing. I understand this is becoming more and more common wisdom. I’m grateful for this. Feelings shouldn’t be confused for fact. Still, I don’t believe we can talk about this too much. Because how you feel is real. How she feels is real. How he feels is real. Those feelings could
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“You’ll find them when you stop looking.” I heard those words. I heard them as I was busy in the middle of abandoning yet another project, ambition, etc. I’m notoriously bad at finishing (well, not that kind of finishing!). I’m fine with beginnings. I get excited about new ideas– and then I forget about them.
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She’s worried, as we’re speaking, What if I have a wonderful time with you? What if we decide to try a second date? What if we want…a relationship? Something more. Something real. What if it’s not just some stupid, silly fling? She continues, sincerely puzzled, but with no ill intent. She asks, How does that
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Abused people, abuse people. I’ve heard that a lot. It’s easy to find yourself trapped in that mentality. As angry as I’ve gotten at my ex-metamour, I know that she’s mostly repeating what her own mother did to her. This is what she believes love looks like. It’s what she’s known. Abused people, abuse people.
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“focus on the feeling,” his voice is smooth, low, there are a lot of problems but they don’t exist now. “The only thing that matters is the feeling,” his fingers brush over the silkiness that is my body, swelling curves, gently emanating heat. it’s true. this is all that matters, now and always. all the
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