I like being independent. I love the idea of being my own person, all the time, without a care in the world. Solopoly, the idea of being polyamorous but remaining one’s own primary relationship. Without any of the burdens (though, yes, without some of the benefits) of a long term, committed, involved on every level […]
struggling with solopoly Read More »
Polyamory is NOT Just about having or wanting many, loving relationships -almost- ALL people want this and have this. Just because they “only” have one (or no) romantic relationships doesn’t mean they don’t have multiple, loving NON romantic relationships. Please avoid appearing like you believe you’re the only one with “too much love” to give
phrases to drop to avoid disparaging other forms of relationships: part one Read More »
I cannot sleep, as per usual. Well, usual enough. My mind jumps and darts in a million directions. Naturally, I begin to play with myself. From the other side of the bed, a voice tells me, “Now.” I jerk in response, my fingers instinctively quickening in pace. “C’mon, kitten,” his voice slips across the sheets.
kitty & master life: part four Read More »
(Based off my own submission to my master, and his choosing of Me as his Submissive; please replace gender/sex as fits your own experience) She chose Him, because he was Kind. She sensed that in him, before she knew him. She felt safe with him, as she rarely did with other men. She couldn’t tell
she chose him, he chose her Read More »
I swear, I didn’t make these up. True relationship quotes I found from vanilla folk about polyamory and ENM (some responses are from me, others from actual responses from strangers). “I mean, respect to those who make this work, but I can’t understand how they don’t murder each other out of jealousy.” “If your best
people really are bad at relationships: part one Read More »
I desperately want to call Her crazy. I don’t, because I know she says it about me. A sign of a narcissist is that they call their exes “crazy.” I’d rather let her be the narcissist. The truth is, I don’t even believe she’s crazy. What she did made perfect logical sense from her perspective, and, frankly,
never call your ex crazy Read More »
I am in love with Love. When you’re someone who adores, breathes Love. When love is more precious than any diamond. When all you want is to feel safe, warm, and full of light. It is a painful world we live in that has trouble wrapping their mind around this. I’ve heard (true quote), “I
oh, I keep falling in and out of love with you…and you…and you… Read More »
I’ve seen this come up time and time again. Especially related to how soooo many folks in polyamorous relationships don’t want to commit, are just looking to have fun, don’t want a “serious” relationship..and I keep hearing this word… Lazy. I thought I’d drop it here, for posterity’s sake. And to engage a bit of
is it lazy to not have a primary partner? Read More »
I am not a mathematical person. I cannot tell you if 1+1=2, mathematically speaking. I know there are arguments, apparently both ways, where some say one plus one equals two– and some say it does not. Don’t ask me for the mathematical proof, please. I am, however, a relationship person. In relationships, 1+1=X. I would
Blood is thicker than water, so some say (I am making a personal commitment to myself to stop saying ‘they say,’ because I despise it). Yet my chosen family is closer to me than many blood relatives. But I can’t say there is nothing to the bond of family by blood. A child raised by a
when blood is thicker than water (and as precious) Read More »