Not tomorrow, not in a week’s time, not in the distant future. Not what can we do to bring change in a year, in ten years, in our lifetime. But what can we do today? I have, as many of us do, plots and conspiracies. Theories and ideas. Brilliant, intricate masterminded ambitions. …but not all …
As soon as she wasn’t interested in me sexually, she wasn’t interested in me romantically. As soon as she wasn’t interested in me romantically, she wasn’t interested in speaking with me. As soon as she wasn’t interested in speaking with me, she stopped saying “hello.” As soon as she stopped saying “hello,” she needed a …
i could not put a price on the munchkinsbut our lawyers, their mother could happily do so, this is how much it costs to protect your right to live with them, this is how much you must pay to see them, this is how much you must make in order to be allowed to have …
She’s always there for me, Or, at any rate, she always is on top of my love life. Making sure I get what I need. At least that’s what I tell myself. It’s most definitely a need, not a want. “Want” sounds so….unnecessary. Everyone needs to be used until they fall down in a pile of exhaustion, right? okay, …
Sometimes sitting, wishing, and waiting isn’t enough. Wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough. Simply living your best life isn’t always enough. There’s never an “enough” to guarantee finding Love, let alone Submission and someone worthy of that Submission. Or someone worthy of Ownership. …but sometimes we can help ourselves out a bit. …
It’s late Sunday evening, around 9pm. I notice my oldest munchkin at her usual ritual. She’s sitting at the dinner table, absorbed in her snacks and her Facebook scrolling. It’s one of the few times she emerges from her den. I’m annoyed at her for bolting away from dinner earlier and avoiding chores. She’s barely …
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She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He needs to be Tall, fit, experienced in various forms of …
I’m idly scrolling through Facebook the other day. Someone made a post with an image of Diane from Bojack Horseman, after her divorce from her celebrity husband where she states, “You feel even more alone than before you left. But you survive. You learn that you can survive being alone.” A lot of people cheered …
As the old year winds down and the new year approaches, this is one of my commitments to myself. I feel this is quite a lot, considering I don’t generally like rules. I am breaking my own standard to create a new rule, at least for myself. The Golden Rule: Treat others how YOU want …
ruby rule: when you treat people better than you want to be treated, the Read More »
Feelings are a funny thing. I understand this is becoming more and more common wisdom. I’m grateful for this. Feelings shouldn’t be confused for fact. Still, I don’t believe we can talk about this too much. Because how you feel is real. How she feels is real. How he feels is real. Those feelings could …