People don’t always remember what’s happened very well. History may be real, but how we recall it is…complicated. But, as I’ve spoken with people over time, I find we all remember how we felt with a person. Whether they made us feel good, stressed, jubilant, terrified. We remember the feelings.
“I couldn’t love a motherless child.” So said Catelyn Stark about the boy she thought was her husband’s bastard. Games of Thrones is my new background noise. I wish she could have loved little Jon Snow. I don’t understand how you cannot love a child. Truth is, I instinctively want to protect all children, though …
Jealousy is normal. Of course it is, why wouldn’t it be in a world where jealousy is taught to us from the earliest ages. When everything around us is a competition. When we’re taught we need to be someone’s possession above all else, and they must be ours. I am his, and he is mine. …
closer look at jealousy by a very overly confident kitten, a Read More »
I shall state this simply and clearly for those in the back: Your emotional burdens are not my responsibility. …nor are my, or anyone else’s, burdens your responsibility. Call me cruel, heartless, unfeeling, but at least I feel I am fair. Of course, it’s your choice to live this way. I had a friend try …
Be with me, I want you to be with me, hold me. Can you do that for me? Will you tell me who you are? Will you tell me what you want? What makes you happy? Has anyone asked you that before? I hope so. If not, tell me what makes you happy, Or tell …
Our community is, indeed, varied and fascinating. I won’t deny that. Yet, just every so often, I find myself wishing for someone who scratches a particular itch. While I believe wholeheartedly that there is no one person who can do something for you– I do find there are certain kinks/kink providers that are scarce enough to practically be unique when one does find them.
I read this quote that said, “When a mom has a bad day, she’s allowed to vent. If a stepmom does the same, she’s stereotyped.” Of course feelings don’t listen to any of that. Of course stepmoms do get upset. But, you see, what they really mean isn’t that they aren’t allowed to show that …
…from Game of Thrones. (Although, if you haven’t seen the show by now, spoilers probably won’t matter) I apologize- a bit, but only a bit– for my latest bit of obsession with this show, but I wanted to write something light and sweet. Too many hard subjects on my mind of late. Do you know …
I don’t think it does anyone any good to be only one thing and to lose themselves in that thing. I sincerely believe that is why -some- mothers hate motherhood. Some women think it means losing themselves and becoming nothing but a mother. The woman, in my opinion naturally, resents this– unfortunately often resulting in …
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Dear future wife or husband, I want the party. It’s not about starting the rest of our lives together. We’re doing that right now. Every day is the rest of our lives together. Our lives aren’t going to start after the wedding. I’m not waiting until then. I want our lives starting together NOW. Not …