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I am a trusting soul. I trust in my master, absolutely and wholeheartedly. I trust in my chosen family. I trust that my life will work out, so long as I move forward. But my hopes? I feel we often seek some savior. To change things. To make things better. I know certain loved ones […]

If I were single and you met me, what would change? Would we be each other’s first priority, since we had “nobody else”? I suppose all the friends, family, etc in our lives wouldn’t count for anything. No, I’d clearly be “alone.” Except for you. Do you think my life would then be yours? I

Nobody wants to feel unwanted. It’s one of the worst feelings, stupid, petty, gross. Doesn’t even have any self righteousness to it, like betrayal. Being unwanted just sucks. Unfortunately, it’s all too common. Dating polyamorously means I end up dating a lot. Or sort of dating? I don’t even know anymore. But whatever it is,

Women, I need you to listen to something, I am not your competition. We are not each other’s competition. Of this, I can assure you. Life will throw plenty of obstacles your way. It will create competition at every step of the journey. We needn’t make it worse by competing among each other. That other

I’ve lost phone numbers,money,arguments,girlfriends,possessions,favorite outfits,my temper,my cool,the high ground a kitten’s claws can be provoked, though she regrets it each and every time I’ve been broken up with,ghosted,smeared,passed over for,forgotten. I have had material things stolen,jewelry,clothing,special treats, but not my loved ones. when I fall asleep at night,I fall asleep with the love and affectionof

Something I saw from a friend, We teach our littles to be strong, we teach them to be brave, we teach them to get up when they fall and never give up on something they want. But there is a moment, it’s coming for all of us, where they walk confidently away from you. They

I shall state this simply and clearly for those in the back: Your emotional burdens are not my responsibility. …nor are my, or anyone else’s, burdens your responsibility. Call me cruel, heartless, unfeeling, but at least I feel I am fair. Of course, it’s your choice to live this way. I had a friend try

People don’t always remember what’s happened very well. History may be real, but how we recall it is…complicated. But, as I’ve spoken with people over time, I find we all remember how we felt with a person. Whether they made us feel good, stressed, jubilant, terrified. We remember the feelings.

…from Game of Thrones. (Although, if you haven’t seen the show by now, spoilers probably won’t matter) I apologize- a bit, but only a bit– for my latest bit of obsession with this show, but I wanted to write something light and sweet. Too many hard subjects on my mind of late. Do you know