I am a trusting soul. I trust in my master, absolutely and wholeheartedly. I trust in my chosen family. I trust that my life will work out, so long as I move forward. But my hopes? I feel we often seek some savior. To change things. To make things better. I know certain loved ones …
If I were single and you met me, what would change? Would we be each other’s first priority, since we had “nobody else”? I suppose all the friends, family, etc in our lives wouldn’t count for anything. No, I’d clearly be “alone.” Except for you. Do you think my life would then be yours? I …
if I were single today, would you be my primary tomorrow? Read More »
Nobody wants to feel unwanted. It’s one of the worst feelings, stupid, petty, gross. Doesn’t even have any self righteousness to it, like betrayal. Being unwanted just sucks. Unfortunately, it’s all too common. Dating polyamorously means I end up dating a lot. Or sort of dating? I don’t even know anymore. But whatever it is, …
if they want you, they want you; if they don’t, they don’t Read More »
Ah, the fantasy for most male folk, no? Maybe. Certainly it’s true for at least a few of em, and, let’s be honest, for more than a few of us female persons, as well. Although, funny thing, when one presses it as a Thing That Might Happen, several folk politely bow out. It’s a tasty treat, …
Women, I need you to listen to something, I am not your competition. We are not each other’s competition. Of this, I can assure you. Life will throw plenty of obstacles your way. It will create competition at every step of the journey. We needn’t make it worse by competing among each other. That other …
women2women: womenfolk (or femme presenting) are not your competition Read More »
I’ve lost phone numbers,money,arguments,girlfriends,possessions,favorite outfits,my temper,my cool,the high ground a kitten’s claws can be provoked, though she regrets it each and every time I’ve been broken up with,ghosted,smeared,passed over for,forgotten. I have had material things stolen,jewelry,clothing,special treats, but not my loved ones. when I fall asleep at night,I fall asleep with the love and affectionof …
Something I saw from a friend, We teach our littles to be strong, we teach them to be brave, we teach them to get up when they fall and never give up on something they want. But there is a moment, it’s coming for all of us, where they walk confidently away from you. They …
you never know when they are listening (a gentle word of caution to kinky parents) Read More »
…from Game of Thrones. (Although, if you haven’t seen the show by now, spoilers probably won’t matter) I apologize- a bit, but only a bit– for my latest bit of obsession with this show, but I wanted to write something light and sweet. Too many hard subjects on my mind of late. Do you know …
Jealousy is normal. Of course it is, why wouldn’t it be in a world where jealousy is taught to us from the earliest ages. When everything around us is a competition. When we’re taught we need to be someone’s possession above all else, and they must be ours. I am his, and he is mine. …
closer look at jealousy by a very overly confident kitten, a Read More »
Be with me, I want you to be with me, hold me. Can you do that for me? Will you tell me who you are? Will you tell me what you want? What makes you happy? Has anyone asked you that before? I hope so. If not, tell me what makes you happy, Or tell …