why i’m polyamorous, in appreciation & acknowledgement of happy polyamory day I have two reasons. Shall I present the profound reason first, or the…less profound? The Bus Stop Analogy Whenever I see someone at the bus stop, I never know what will happen between them and myself. Will they be a fleeting memory, a smile? …
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It’s hard for me to believe this some days. Most days, it feels like, anymore. I want to be good. It’s not very nice to think mean thoughts about another person. It doesn’t matter what they did to you, or to the people you love. It still feels wrong and mean and petty. I do …
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thank you for capturing my mind You say my body is a treasure. You touch it as if for the first time, each and every time, savoring the feel, the softness, the warmth. Your body is so warm, how is that possible, you say. You slap it, play with it like it’s a toy. You mark it …
Perhaps it’s not sexy to talk about this. But I don’t care. What I do care about is this: The vaccine is not about me. It’s probably not about you. It’s about the others. My little one thinks adults don’t care about her, and it doesn’t help when she hears adults whining about the shot. …
I wrote an earlier piece on different [forms] of play in kink. But why does it matter, anyway? Because I’ll hear people all the time asking, what makes me kinky? Or him or her….or so many questions. And ultimately, I have only one litmus test: Is it play? Because as soon as you involve play– …
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I feel the word trapped in my throat— when I talk about someone in my life, but leave off the exact nature of our relationship. Feels like I’m hiding, lying. I’ve seen this frustration expressed a million times, someone wishing they didn’t have to hide their partners. Doesn’t feel good, perhaps unethical. It’s wrong to …
sigh, some days I really just want to show off my partners! Read More »
dear stranger, Perhaps you’re the sort that thinks polyamory, transgender, bi/pansexuality, etc is “trendy” and “fun.” I can’t say I disagree with you, entirely. Yes, I can see how someone who lives a more traditional life may see it that way. It’s quite fun to be able to express ourselves, freely, without expectations or boundaries. …
Surely this isn’t an unfamiliar sight. A dominant stands proudly, thrilled by his submissive’s accomplishments and demeanor. S/he freely displays them for the public, basking in the glow of the accolades, “What a beautiful relationship you two have!” The masses are slutty with their praises. But somewhere in the background is a frustrated dominant (or …
So this is what I found online one day: A mean mom… Tries to get her kids to bed on time on school nights. Limits the amount of caffeine, sugar, and processed foods her children consume. Limits the amount of time her kids spend watching TV, playing video games, and surfing the net. Is true …
“Living the dream” is a phrase rather ruined for me (among many things) by Bojack Horseman.. Nonetheless, it came up tonight. At least in my head. I wanted to put my mind to more pleasant avenues of thought. What, I asked myself, does that even mean? Living the dream? I don’t know. I never had d …