Our community is, indeed, varied and fascinating. I won’t deny that. Yet, just every so often, I find myself wishing for someone who scratches a particular itch. While I believe wholeheartedly that there is no one person who can do something for you– I do find there are certain kinks/kink providers that are scarce enough to practically be unique when one does find them.
I read this quote that said, “When a mom has a bad day, she’s allowed to vent. If a stepmom does the same, she’s stereotyped.” Of course feelings don’t listen to any of that. Of course stepmoms do get upset. But, you see, what they really mean isn’t that they aren’t allowed to show that …
People don’t always remember what’s happened very well. History may be real, but how we recall it is…complicated. But, as I’ve spoken with people over time, I find we all remember how we felt with a person. Whether they made us feel good, stressed, jubilant, terrified. We remember the feelings.
I shall state this simply and clearly for those in the back: Your emotional burdens are not my responsibility. …nor are my, or anyone else’s, burdens your responsibility. Call me cruel, heartless, unfeeling, but at least I feel I am fair. Of course, it’s your choice to live this way. I had a friend try …
Some say time is the most valuable thing. It’s true that it is irreplaceable. It is also true that the time we’ve lost with someone cannot be recreated. Lost time cannot be found. But the most beautiful words spoken to me were, “You are my most precious possession.” The words, “I have time for you.”? …
I don’t think it does anyone any good to be only one thing and to lose themselves in that thing. I sincerely believe that is why -some- mothers hate motherhood. Some women think it means losing themselves and becoming nothing but a mother. The woman, in my opinion naturally, resents this– unfortunately often resulting in …
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“Black men feel….” “Adoptees always…” “Asian Americans are…” Yes, you have more insight as someone who is a part of a specific community or identity. But you don’t get to say how ALL of them feel. You especially don’t get to speak on behalf of an entire community that you AREN’T a part of, but …
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See Original Post HERE from the lovely @Rainbow_Kitten7 Yes, at first I gained poly muscles…wayyyyy more than I ever thought I would. I can even flex them a little. Tiny baby poly biceps. It’s cute, really. Totes presh, just like our precious @Midgee. And that was my main original goal. Let go of that closed fist …
Dear future wife or husband, I want the party. It’s not about starting the rest of our lives together. We’re doing that right now. Every day is the rest of our lives together. Our lives aren’t going to start after the wedding. I’m not waiting until then. I want our lives starting together NOW. Not …
What is a safeword? A safeword is a funny, unusual word. It’s an alternative way to stop or slow down play (say, a “scene”). Instead of saying “no” or “stop.” Because there may be times where the submissive (or even the dominant) wants to be able to say “no,” and have the other person keep …
difference between safe words & hard limits, the Read More »