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a kitty’s guide to meeting kinky folk: part 1, munches are awesome

If vanilla life suits you, I’m sincerely happy for you.  This isn’t for you, though. Meeting people is hard.  That’s basic 101 Living Life As A Human. But if you’ve not been kinky for a while, you may not realize how freaking hard it is to meet kinky people!  Like more than the usual amount of…hard…ness. You …

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value of friendship, the

“She’s just a friend.” I don’t love this phrase.  I’m supposed to attach some sacred value to a person with the title, “girlfriend,” or “boyfriend,” “fiancé” (with one “e”) or “fiancée” (with two “e”s) or “spouse.”  Since time began, I imagine men and women whispered this to each other, “Don’t worry about Sarah, she’s just …

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erasure and homophobia

I’m at a friend’s house, or maybe we’re walking in the park.  I don’t remember.  A friend of a friend of a friend commented that she didn’t pay attention to her friends’ sexuality.  How she wouldn’t even think of her friends’ sexualities “for days at a time.”  That’s nice, I thought, because I didn’t feel …

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