Congratulations! Hey, it was tough, but you managed it. You found Him. The perfect dom and monogamous! I mean, how often do you stumble across that? But you caught this one! You found your perfect match. Your one true love (at least for now. S/he is the perfect, monogamous dom(me) who does it for desire– […]
“She doesn’t get to be traumatized!” Firstly, let me say that my munchkin and her biological mother have a strained relationship. There’s plenty of reason for her to feel angry towards the woman who gave birth to her. Of course, that would almost be an upgrade to her current coldness and indifference. Except when moments
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she’s soft, sweet
unintimidating
helpful, understanding
she doesn’t judge you
doesn’t fault you
follows you
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Thanks to @WisDomTakesfolly for this lovely description of entering a new relationship! [There’s someone that I’ve been spending a lot of time talking with. That person and I have mutually agreed to take things slowly, building trust and establishing a solid foundation to see where things go. It’s a state that isn’t NRE. It’s a
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It’s a funny little thing, love. Or so it seems. There’s a poem, I saw once, floating in the void about Love and Motherhood. How love for one’s children isn’t just about how one talks about their child, or the hugs and kisses they post pictures of on their various accounts. But that it’s also
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Tonight, master, myself, and the oldest munchkin are on a grocery run. We’re out of milk (of course!). Also, I want a few other things. Actual fresh vegetables, fruit, some Annie’s mac and cheese (don’t judge me), etc. We’re picking out a few cheeses- when I spot it from the corner of my eye. “Rainbow
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Okay, okay, there’s clearly no such thing. Still, I’ve run into quite a bit of trouble on this matter. I’d like to air a few thoughts. Women seem to either want both my master and I, or want to come in between us. That’s how it’s pretty much always been. Yet I’ve continued to have
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1. I promise to stop allowing toxic people to rent space in my head for free. I’ve enabled the wrong people far too long. I thought it would be alright. Eventually, I believed, they would move on of their own accord. But it’s almost like they are obsessed with me and cannot let go. I’ve
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After a few minutes of chatting with a new couple at an event, the first inevitable question pops up “Thank you for asking, well, I’ve been coming to munches and such for about ten years, I guess. Feels like forever, honestly. It’s just really comfortable here, and I always meet such nice people.” Person makes
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Tonight, I made dinner for my partner and my oldest munchkin. It’s not much, but it’s tasty and everyone likes it. But it’s not the food that matters. The oldest can find food for herself (though admittedly she’s not very good at it). So can my master. They are not helpless. But, as I said,
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