love as thou wilt
If I could change the world one little bit,
I would make a world where everyone could love, freely, whomever they wished.
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my sex manifesto
…Sex must be “safe.”
I know that sex possesses several risks, like most of life. But I want my sex to strive towards safety. That means more than condoms and birth control.
when they tell you they’re fine
when someone tells you they are fine
they have nothing to talk about
when they’re quieter than usual
why i strive to be the eternal optimist
I never said I am the eternal optimist. Sometimes my tiny turtle mind says, “Hey, little dude, you’re flat on your back and you can’t get up!”
dominance & submission: two sides of the same coin
Dominance and submission cannot be summed up simply. For now, I simply want to present one way of looking at this dynamic.
a kitty’s guide to meeting kinky folk: part 1, munches are awesome
If vanilla life suits you, I’m sincerely happy for you. This isn’t for you, though. Meeting people is hard. That’s basic 101 Living Life As A Human. But if you’ve not been kinky for a while, you may not realize how freaking hard it is to meet kinky people! Like more than the usual amount of…hard…ness. You …
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fantasy life must be oh, so amazing, the
I will do my best to not be mocking, but, okay, you’re warned. God, I am sorry, but I do not understand the fantasy BDSM life. Young dom(mes) sitting around waiting for a bevy of idealized slaves to fill their inboxes, or, better yet, writing dominantly(?) to someone who has given no indication that they …
my relationship manifesto
This is what I believe and how I practice. Everyone should be able to articulate their own. If mine works for you, feel free to steal it (but please do credit and redirect here!) The Kitty presents: My Relationship Values …Every relationship I possess is unique, and between the two or more people directly involved; …
value of friendship, the
“She’s just a friend.” I don’t love this phrase. I’m supposed to attach some sacred value to a person with the title, “girlfriend,” or “boyfriend,” “fiancé” (with one “e”) or “fiancée” (with two “e”s) or “spouse.” Since time began, I imagine men and women whispered this to each other, “Don’t worry about Sarah, she’s just …
basketful of diamonds, a
Once upon a time, someone said that diamonds held unimagined, intrinsic value.
A diamond is forever. A diamond is love.