Me: Communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Also Me: (yells across the room) I’m putting the thingy in the thingy. Master: Okay. Moral of the story? If your communication works, it works. In other words, no matter how silly or idiotic it feels, if you say something and the person understands what you […]
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We’re not supposed to question victims. I understand this. Too often, victims are harassed and disbelieved. I don’t think I’d ever question a rape victim or a victim of sexual assault in any shape or form. Not from their own mouths, at any rate. Sometimes people around them will make up stories, but victims rarely
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All quotes from The Little Prince, public domain “All grown-ups were once children… but only few of them remember it.” “Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is exhausting for children to have to provide explanations over and over again” “Grown-ups are so strange” “Grown-ups are certainly quite extraordinary” “Grown-ups love figures… When you
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Well, that’s not so easy to answer. I could say, rope play, impact play, dressing up in latex and leather, whips, doms, and dominatrices. It’s true this is the most common description of kink, and quite a valid one, but it’s not all of it… I can describe for you one kinky life of a
If you want to know me, follow a cat meme group and that will essentially be “me.” I wake up, I snuggle next to master. I purr until I get attention and, hopefully, scratches. Go back to sleep for a quick early morning nap while master gets kids ready and out the door (tomorrow will
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I held a soft spot for the Phantom of the Opera many years before I self identified as kinky. I was, oh, twenty-five. It isn’t that I wanted that love story. I’m not keen on death and destruction. But that music— Night time sharpens, heightens each sensation Darkness wakes and stirs imagination Silently the senses
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**THIS LIST IS CONSTANTLY BEING UPDATED** These resources are geared towards those new to understanding healthy relationships. All- or most- are poly and kink friendly. But you don’t have to be kinky or poly to get value. If you read this material and think, yeah, I already know this? I may have additional resources for
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I owe a lot to kink. Kink has not only helped me realize who I am… it forced me. Sometimes influence is the barest hint of a breath. Sometimes it is a violent gale. The more I learned about my kinky self and the kinky world, the more I love and accept myself. The more
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“What do you mean, ‘different’?”
“I don’t know. I don’t know what you have to offer me. I don’t know you. Show me something I’ve never experienced before. No— don’t simply spank me harder than any dominant has spanked me before. I can ask any dominant for that. That doesn’t spark anything in me.”
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**THIS LIST IS CONSTANTLY BEING UPDATED** I am tired of the stupid bullshit and propoganda taught in our current society. I think some might be salvaged, but the toxic masculinity/feminity, racist, etc junk? No. I just don’t want any of that, anymore. If Kitty had her own spaceship, these are the movies, TV shows, &
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